You ever wonder why someone that is over weight mocks and criticizes someone else that is overweight?

[Finchie40]

I put on a few pounds after my surgery , and my ex constantly makes comments to me to try to bring me down , when she has no room to talk , She will say harsh comments like I am to big to lay on the couch or I am too big for my shirt I am wearing , her comments make me want to get bigger, so I can sit on her and squish her into a pancake , I know I am no skinny mini, I have always been a broader guy my whole life, some girls’ love my build and some don’t , so , then I think to myself why was she even with me to begin with , if I am not her type? So her words are disrespectful to me , but I try not to let it get under my skin to much , I just lost all respect for her for being rude and disrespectful , so now I am rude and disrespectful to her,? and she doesn’t like it whatsoever , Have you ever been body shammed by anyone , and what did you do about it? My ex will make comments that no girl would want me , so I immediately proved her wrong and hooked up with a thinner girl than her , she immediately shut her mouth

[sage2021]

She's always right there pushing the envelope with you. I don't know who she thinks she is because from what you have said about her - she's no prize and doesn't have any room to talk.

When she starts insulting you just look at her and say "blah blah blah blah blah"!!!

[smashleyy]

people highlight their own insecurities when they have something negative to say about another persons appearance. Her harsh words have nothing to do with you and everything to do with how she feels about herself. Don’t let it get to you

[Finchie40]

I don’t anymore , it just hurt at the time when I thought she loved me to realize she doesn’t , and that she is a negative miserable person that I am happy to no longer be with , When I put myself back on the dating market , I was amazed by how many girls’ find me attractive, so that definitely made me smile

[OneViewpoint]

It sounds like your ex suffers from extreme low self awareness. You are doing the right thing making her look in the mirror every time she opens her mouth.

[Hagar88]

You should try to lose weight. But that was more about her. If it wasn't your weight it would be how much you make and so on.

[DryGermanGuy]

That's a Tu-quoque fallacy, as distraction. The same way that Trump calls JB. Pritzker fat.

[jahaims]

You're both too immature for a healthy relationship. She doesn't communicate that she wants you to be healthy properly and your response is childish as hell wanting to get even more fat, being petty etc.

[Finchie40]

I was joking with the getting more fat , I am just sick of her shit

[robocop666]

Guy I went to school with was insecure about being short so he used to call a few people fat. One guy says "your dad is fatter than us all put together". That shut him up.

[beefcakebradybatson]

"Broader" guy? How broad? (I'm 5'81/2",200 lb.)

[Finchie40]

6 foot 265

[beefcakebradybatson]

That's NFL OL size when I was a lad in the 1950's and 1960's.

[queenofcardio]

She hates herself.

[Finchie40]

She does put herself down all the time , but why does she attack me for it

[888theGreat]

Trump does all the time