Why do people glorifying being overweight/obese?

[Anonymous]

They romanticize being overweight/obese like it's a good thing?

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[Anonymous]

I'm obese and I would never glorify being my size. I hate it. I feel so insecure with my boyfriend. I feel the sex is lacking because of me. I don't feel pretty or beautiful. I feel like a fat ugly slob and I don't understand what he sees in me. I hate myself. And just want to die everyday. I'm trying my hardest to lose the weight because I don't want to be obese anymore. I've been obese all my life. And I'm so sick of it. I blame my parents partially for having me grow up an obese kid and teaching me bad habits but I blame myself more for still being obese as an adult. It's so freaking hard being like this. The clothes are more expensive and not being seen really is also depressing. I was lucky to get my boyfriend. But it's not great to not have other guys look at me. He has no reason to feel like he has to compete and therefore can be very complacent and like he doesn't have to work hard to keep me which is a bad feeling. I want to feel wanted by other guys just so he knows that there's a chance he could lose me.

I just want to feel beautiful and sexy and gorgeous but I feel so unwanted and unappealing and fugly.

Whoever says being big is beautiful is a liar. It is not at all. And don't get me started on all the health issues that makes being obese ugly.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I’m wrong but I think it’s mostly women who push that. I don’t think I’ve heard of a plus size male model. Just plus size female models. Men are shamed for not dating fat women. We’re called fat phobic. A lot of what seems to be wrong in society is stuff that is pushed by women. All these women who say a man who feels he is a lady is indeed a lady. Most men don’t accept that. Men are shamed for not wanting to date a trans woman. As a man you can’t be truthful. A lot of women say they want the truth but when you’re honest then you’re an asshole cause it hurt her feelings. Not only that society cancels you if you go against all these movements.

[Asker]

There are male plus size models

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure there are but they’re not advertised like women are. Plus size swimsuit models, lingerie models. I think society babies women to make them feel better about a lot of things. Like hookup culture. She’s not considered a slut or whore for sleeping w numerous men, she’s empowering herself. How is that empowering herself when she’s gov giving men exactly what they want? The same thing w independent women. Men don’t go around saying I’m an independent man. Because he’s a freaking idiot if he does. But women do. But that’s called being an adult, not an independent woman. Girls are the ones who come up all this nonsense. Same w hot girl summers.

[Asker]

Feminist are the ones that come up with that, not women. I dislike feminists and feminism.

[Opinion Owner]

Most feminist are women.

[Asker]

Feminist does mean women. Get it straight. 💁🏻‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

Yes there are some men who are on that same level w those women, but those male “feminist” are using that as a front.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s why I said most feminist are women.

[Asker]

They're just as retarded as the female feminists.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. But in most cases those male “feminist” are just trying to sleep w those women. He’s like a worm, trying to inch his way between their legs by deceiving them.

[Asker]

Ewww feminists are ugly

[Opinion Owner]

Today’s definition of feminist yes they’re a virus.

[exitseven]

In the old days this was done because most people were starving and if you were carrying a few extra pounds it meant that you were wealthy. I don;t know what the deal is today.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Asker]

That was the bot

[Joshydavid25]

It's just obese women wanting to social engineer themselves into being seen as beautiful and sexy.. Instead of getting to a healthy weight.. And this is coming from a guy who kinda does like a little meat on the bones.

[Lynx---]

They're young and they're only thinking esthetically. They're not thinking in terms of health. They will if they're still the same shape when they're my age because their body will tell them.

[Asker]

But being overweight/obese isn't aesthetic

[tzdc21]

Because if you tell them the truth, you get cancelled or shamed or demonized.

[scooogy]

I think there's at least a huge difference between glorifying oneself being obese and glorifying others being obese.

[Asker]

Both unhealthy 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Billlewis]

Because it's very sexy for a lot of guys.

[Billlewis]

That woman in the Facebook post is absolutely gorgeous!