Agree or Disagree, you don't think you are a topic of conversation at work when you aren't around due to your quiet nature and ability to blend in?

[Anonymous]

Agree

Disagree you stand out in some way

Disagree you would bet you still are despite those things

[OneViewpoint]

Not just at work, everywhere I go. I'm an introvert, I'm not shy, and I'm not arrogant (I hope). But I typically enjoy sitting back and reading the room or being alone with my thoughts more than inane pointless small talk. And I'm a large guy with some hard boundaries.

So I cause a lot of people to feel uneasy with my silence or angry at the boundaries I enforce. But I also generate a lot of curiosity from men and women because I volunteer very little information about myself whereas other people can't shut up, LOL. That difference seems to confuse a lot of people.

Apparently a lot of people notice me and track my activity even if we've never interacted. It always makes me laugh. Why would they even care? But they do.

[Anonymous]

No, they talk about everyone

[Asker]

Is that just because of the people at your job, or are you saying you assume that's everywhere?

[Opinion Owner]

I have experienced it a few places