Thoughts on Indian women?

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Lynx122 · Answer

I only have a few experiences. I met this woman online on r/autism and she was interesting. In the beginning I learned a lot from talking to her she understood me but she was also completely different in the way she adapted to life. She was also very hard for me to read and understand because she didn't have like a consistent pattern of behavior she had multiple sometimes contradicting ideas that she lived by. So my brain wanted to solve this puzzle. Also in the beginning I felt accepted the way I was. But over time things changed I'm very focused on mental development and she seemed to not even think this was something that existed or it was not something she understood or valued. I think partially that was cultural and partially it's because she was using Benzos she called them "anti anxiety" and whenever she felt stressed she would just take one. This led to her not understanding what I was even dealing with. She was like "I don't have emotional issues" and said I have no self esteem when I was struggling with somethin and stuff like that.
And of course because she was suppressing all her emotions with drugs she was completely stagnant and I was moving forwards. So over time this caused problems. Also because she took these drugs she couldn't regulate her emotions well anymore because she was out of practise so she used me to do that and I became the supplement to her drug use so she would call me to stabilize her when something happened to her even something minor. Of course that was very draining for me. But it took me a while to really understand everything that was going on. Now I had to distance myself from her. I gave her information about Benzo withdrawal and stuff and she said she would look at it but I blocked her on whatsapp and instagram. I hope she actually takes it seriously and deals with this issue.

This is not my opinion on all indian women I just wanted to share my experience. I also met her mother and she was very nice.

Peachie2050 · Answer

Indians are not a monolith community like the bleached faves of Americans. They constantly compare Asian Indians to East Asians because Indians are slightly darker. You can find the fairest to the darkest skin tone so it’s not really a monotonous looking community. The eyes definitely have a gender and visible lashes are a common trait. Body type, facial features and demeanour can be incredibly diverse as I have seen during my visits to various parts of India. Kashmiri and Punjabi girls are very likely to have lighter skin and /or eyes and are frequently put into the “Arab” group by illiterates. South Indians are the largest Indian group in Maerica, particularly in Bay area as they get a lot of IT workers who usually hail from Souther parts of India. Lara Raj is a good example of South Indian looks as most girls in the Northern states don’t look like that. Asian Indians mostly don’t use strong bleaches like East Asians or avoid sun exposure so religiously. Usually simple skincare is sold as “lightening product” without any effective bleaching properties. Plastic surgeries, which are extremely common in East Asian are hardly a part of Indian glow ups. Usually, an American puts you in another category if you don’t resemble Lara Raj or Mindy Kaling. That has happened to me a lot. They wish Indians all looked the same and exactly like Mindy Kaling because propaganda can’t help you think East Asians look better than all other women. I personally think, any Indian girls of the level of Aishwarya Rai are hard to beat. They’re usually judged negatively entirely due to skin tone which is usually not marble/chalk shaded nor do they aspire to be as rosy cheeks are considered beautiful enough

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, I don't think you can really generalize about Indian women any more than you can generalize about American women. Everyone has their own personality, values, and way of looking at relationships.

That said, I think Indian culture is interesting, especially the importance many families place on family, relationships, and traditions. I also think Indian women are often unfairly stereotyped online, and I'd rather get to know someone as an individual than make assumptions based on where she's from.

I'm curious though, what do you personally think? Have you dated or been friends with an Indian woman?

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Honestly, blank slate. They are quite rare here

I've just met one in person, but she had spent much more time here than in India so culturally she didn't look foreign at all. The only thing that looked "Indian" about her was her physical traits

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

They seem too loyal and value a family culture too much to expose themselves to people outside of their tight knit community and or friend circle.

The few I've known well were very nice, very attractive, looking for love wherever they went. I don't know if they were promiscuous or not... Except the one who a model definitely was. I feel like I shouldn't count her though that girl was an oddball in many ways.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Like... what? Looks? Culture? Sense of humor? Sex? I've never known any Indian women all that well. I worked pretty closely with one. She was a grade A class act here on a corporate sponsored visa. Worked her butt off, smart, conscientious. Cute. Skinny.

shish_kebab · Answer

I had a few Indian nurses when I was in the hospital and they were just as delightful as can be. I had an Indian doctor and for the life of me I couldn't pronounce her difficult name. So I told her I'm just going to call her "Tallahassee." She liked that, and smiled. I copied that from Woody Harrelson in the movie "Zombieland."

Anonymous · Answer

is a lot of indian women who work minimum wage jobs here like fast food places or gas stations. never really talked to one and had little interest in learning more about them really. but yeah just appeared here randomly and took all the easy to find low paying jobs. our dairy queen did not have a single south Asian on staff around 2020 now not anyone on staff who is not , the white girls who worked there seem to have got pregnent during covid and never came back

Grond21 · Answer

I married one, and she is amazing! I love her to death.

Rorroto · Answer

I've literally met none of them - only Indian guys.

NathanDavis · Answer

whenever I think of you... I never think of "Indian you" just you... and for that, you're a puzzling one... which has nothing to do with India really...

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Quite a number of them with an inferiority complex when compared with East Asians or Caucasians. At least that's what the posting behavior on GaG often seems to indicate. 🤷‍♂️

lightbulb27 · Answer

generally good upbringing and positive, but be careful with those heavy creams because they put on the bulk in mid age...

stevenkelly · Answer

Indian women are just as diverse as women anywhere else. I wouldn’t generalize too much based on nationality.

FreyaRed · Answer

No clue, never met one. I hope they have better hygiene and are less desperate than their male counterparts.

JHNS98 · Answer

I'm very good friends with an Indian woman who apparently works at the university I go to, but in a very different department.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

They're very nice and will take good care of you until they start cheating on you! DON'T let them eat chick peas or you'll be sorry!!!

CarolineWhizz · Answer

American Indian or from the Indian sub-continent?

Agape93 · Answer

They dont bother me like the men do

MrChinaski · Answer

I try not to walk around with opinions that characterise 3/4 billion people.

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

India is way too big to classify their women as just one. I got no problem with women from there though

AgentG111 · Answer

Which ones?  Casino Indians convenience store Indians or those that are pretending to be Indians?

LiamS95 · Answer

I find some of them to be incredibly beautiful, very feminine and sexy.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Can be cute enough, I just would have to have a good talk to make sure we're on the same hygiene standards.

Anonymous · Answer

The appreciate what a black man brings to the bedroom

FrodoSkywalker007 · Answer

Why are Indians and Turkish people obsessed with our thoughts on them? 🤷‍♂️

nothaone · Answer

Pretty... good vibe... good to have conversation with... humorous side is good too if she has one

Still-alive · Answer

Positive thoughts i promise lol

shortster · Answer

Look cute, would date.

slatyb · Answer

I've crushed on quite a few.

rgb008 · Answer

No thoughts about them

Anonymous · Answer

Which ones. Feathers or dots?

Paige2006 · Answer

From the country India or native Americans?

loveslongnails · Answer

They all seem to be from India !!

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Down to earth

Red2003 · Answer

Few are pretty I have indian friends.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

They are very smart

Titlover01 · Answer

Sexy.

kinks1951 · Answer

Sexy

doren680 · Answer

What about them

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