Do you agree most people subconsciously like drama and assholes because if they didn't, most people wouldn't use good people?

[Steven80000]

• If most people liked good people and not drama, than the people that get the most attention wouldn't be assholes.

[Veronika_p]

I think people are often attracted to what feels exciting, not necessarily what is good for them. Some mistake inconsistency for chemistry and drama for passion, while overlooking people who offer genuine peace and stability. But I wouldn't say everyone who gets used is using good people because they secretly love drama. Sometimes, good people simply meet people who don't have the same intentions or emotional maturity.

And let's be real, being a good person doesn't automatically make you compatible with someone, just as being an asshole doesn't automatically make you attractive.

I think the real problem is that some people want the excitement of a toxic relationship but expect the security of a healthy one. And until they learn the difference between being wanted and being genuinely valued, they may keep choosing the same kind of people. 🧠❤️

[Flower7]

Yes, I do think most people crave drama, especially in relationships.