Guys do you stalk your crush on Facebook?

[123everlyn]

Girls are welcome to answer to but I would love to get a guys opinion. And if you do why.

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OK Here's a situation I need help on, I have a crush that is my friend on Facebook. I told him that I liked him and to my surprise he has a girlfriend so I backed off. Well since we go to the same college I see him EVERYDAY, and when I do he stares at me and then looks the other way. The creepiness started when I was sitting in the lounge when he pulled up and got out of his jeep and walked into the building he works at. Not a minute passes and he walks right by staring t me

[Anonymous]

i have known guys who do...i caught my guyfriend doing it. I don't think they stalk hardcore like all your friends and posts and stuff, but they just browse around when theyre bored and look through pics, like anyone would on fb. Facebook is meant for stalking to be honest like whoever you add as a friend, your giving them permission to keep track of your life, that's why its called the social network, you keep in touch with people more effectively. =]

i used to check my crush's page every once in a while, but actually because he played such hot and cold games in person in school, it was painful to look at his pics on fb seeing him with other girls out partying with friends and stuff...i just didn't wanna know...its like the saying what I don't know can't hurt me. lol eventually I trained myself never to look at his page because I was getting hurt by it. ;( and it didn't work out btwn us so I deleted him on fb, because he basically rejected me.

[Skyler123]

Yup, I agree with the guys. If I like someone I let them know. You're not going to get anywhere pawning over there sexy photos.

[Skyler123]

*Their. Gawd what's going on with my grammar these days?

[MrNameless]

I wish more girls were like you.. More direct I mean.

[Skyler123]

It can kind of go against your favor though. A lot of men are the type that they'd date a chick simply because they know she likes them, not because they have real feelings for her. I've experienced this and it wasn't pleasant. You just have to be sure they like you as well before making a move.

[TheDigitalSaint]

I agree with the guy right below me. If I find her attractive, I'll just call her up or meet with her in person and tell her I'm taking her out sometime. If she's game, great. If not, time to just move on to another girl. Stalking (be it online or in real life) is an obsessive behavior that doesn't merit results. If you want a girlfriend, you have to take the steps necessary to get one.

[icecreamlover]

:D

[foreverme]

wow...I like how you think:):) wish more guys were like you!

[TheDigitalSaint]

Get behind icecreamlover, she flirted with me first.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Thanks for BA!

[123everlyn]

Your answer was the most logical one! Thank You.

[TheDigitalSaint]

You're welcome. :)

[Anonymous]

I'll admit I FB stalked my ex right after she cruely broke up with me; I still had strong feelings for her. But it didn't do me any good because all it made me sad seeing her posting success stories and being happy having just moved to her dream city.

[live4failure]

no, sometimes I roam around to check something like the relationship status or look at info for similar interests but that is it.. you don't really get much from stalking someone on Facebook lmao.. as for the staring.. some people stare...lol

[sovetskii13]

I wouldn't call it "Stalking", more like... keeping track. Staying up-to-date.

[bigmike16]

I agree

[gaberosa]

Lols, because I guess we don't have the balls to do something about it, like set something up, I don't know like a date or a meet

[Anonymous]

No, I don't. I think that's childish, stalkerish, behavior. If I have a crush, I ask her out. Why p****foot around?

[arashmenalagha]

that's when you started creepin?

[123everlyn]

What do you mean dude, I didn't think that he would do anything weird.

[arashmenalagha]

why are you being offended jeez?

[sfauo]

No I don't, pointless and too creepy.

[arashmenalagha]

no. I don't it's a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but I Facebook stalk my friends too.

[Anonymous]

I probably woould if they were on Facebook.

[gaberosa]

Interesting