Do guys social media stalk their crushes?

[Anonymous]

yes

no

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[SteveSmith1985]

Not gonna lie. I'm not a big facebook guy. I've been off of it for a couple of years... but at least up until that point... absolutely.

I don't think there's much difference between men and women on this. I think it's just that guys just wouldn't TALK about doing it... to anyone. Not that they're super ashamed or anything... it just isn't something a guy would ever mention say, to a friend-- it just wouldn't come up.

But guys act (at least) as goofy as girls do when they've got a crush. Often in many of the same ways.

[Jonny_]

Not actively no, i'm more inclined to read or "like" their stuff but I don't go out of my way to check out their profile for or anything.

[qrlr13]

I'd say yes they do. For example, the guy I'm with now told me he used to frequently look at my social media before he decided to message me. He said he had been looking at me for a few months and felt drawn to me but was too nervous to start anything. I would have never known unless he told me. It turned out to be a good thing in this situation but I feel more often than not guys stalk girls profiles without talking to them, so you would never know.

[OrionTheCat]

My ex was constantly on my profile, I couldn't like a post without him not noticing, he liked all my photos I have ever posted and wanted to talk to me whenever I was online. And we've only dated for 3 days or so. (We didn't last more than a week, understandable. In his defence, we were 17, so I guess younger guys are more likely to be obsessive and stalk their crushes. Same with girls.)

[AmandaYVR]

Most people who are younger than me disagree, but I wouldn't call it "stalking". It is what social media is for. To check out and interact and meet people. It's all fine, in my book.

[JordanAldo]

I'd say most of them do, and I wouldn't say stalking, maybe to get an understanding of what type of person their crush is.

[namino]

Naturally, you will wanna know anything about your crush. Because you feel admire.

[btbc92]

Yes, creepy people do it for no logical reason. Hence why I always keep my social media private.

[DiscomfortZone]

I realize that in this day and age any contact between a man and a woman is rape, but no, visiting a profile and looking at a few pictures isn't rape. And it isn't stalking.

[Danny_dan92]

I wouldn't say I STALK but I check them out casually. looking at their stories and liking all their posts they post since I follow them

[Antelope]

Yes, and I don't know why this surprises anyone. Anything you put out there is out in the open, so if someone is interested in you, of course they'll look

[OddBeMe]

Obvi #notallguys, but we can get obsessed. Gals, be careful what pics or info you put anywhere online.

[Nikki1989]

I don't. I have little social media accounts to do the stalking on.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah we do but not to the occasionally insane lengths that girls do.

[shadowlhyn]

Yeah and some or should i say i stalk and check mostly who react and comments on his post and lastly reads the comments 😅😅

[Anonymous]

Yes. Absolutely. But not at as obsessive a level as women seem to.

A guy might look up your instagram or facebook or whatever. But it seems women will employ 3 of their closest friends to find every last detail of his life.

[Anonymous]

Please read the privacy and policy of social platforms before creating account there.

[Anonymous]

Honestly depends on the guy if you don't know them, or haven't got to known very well there you might as well block them from seeing your acc

[serious]

I suppose some of them do so.

[unluckyplant710]

I don't want to know.

[StephenCF]

I don’t know any man who hasn’t 😅

[Luukas]

Mostly all Boys/Men stalk their crushes.

[Chris006]

Some always do...😳🙄👀

[Nicolette777]

Doesn’t everyone?