Would you classify your boyfriend talking to a random girl online as cheating?

[babydoll0808]

well, I recently saw on my boyfriends myspace, that some random girl was telling him when she was going to be home.

& I asked him about it and he said he didn't know her and only talked to her cause he was bored, I saw a picture of her, and laughed cause of how ugly she was and I mentioned it to him, and he said " I know, she has saggy tits anyways" and I asked him how he knew that, and he said cause of her slutty pictures... but I'm not completely sure about the whole thing, this has been in the back of my mind for a while now. helpp ?

[YamiUmi]

I know a lot of guys and it's very rare to find one who will turn down seeing a naked woman. Even if they're ugly. On the other hand, a lot of men, once they settle, will stick to their woman. I believe it was Ron White who put it :"Tits, once you've seen one...you want to see them all."

It is up to you weather you think he's cheating if it comes down to online dating. My personal opinion is, if he wants to have a little text fling with some woman, as long as he's honest and it doesn't go any further, then go ahead. The moment he decides to meet her in real life, then I'm going to be paying very close attention to what he's doing with her.

[Anonymous]

oh yes. its cheating. once a cheater always a cheater. I think that says everything. if you can deal with not trusting him again and questioning whohe is with, what he is doing for the rest of your life, then go back to him, if you can't then you'll have to let go and know there's someone just as amazing (minus the cheating part!) you will find.

[timberlake]

i agree atomizer. it would bother me a little if I were you too. I'd let him know.

[TexPlayboy]

It is hard to tell whether you guy is a player or not. But I can tell you that it is hard from a guy to ignore what is right in front of him, no matter how much self control he has. If she is throwing something his way, he might fall into it. I am not sure how serious you are about him, and your question is 3 months old, so maybe you can give us an update on the situation.

is he still your boyfriend?

Good Luck,

James

[Atomizer]

What matters is if *you* classify this as cheating.

If it bothers you, tell your boyfriend that it bothers you and you'd rather he didn't chat with other girls online.

Depending on how he responds, you'll know if your boyfriend cares about your opinions, and if his word has any value.

[simplymebabeee]

Its nothing I do it all the time Don't worry ok? =]

[-smilewhore]

no its nothing don't worry. if she's ugly well then why are you worrying?