My friend's boyfriend deleted me off her Facebook?

[Jared1211]

My friends boyfriend deleted me off her Facebook after I hit liked on of her picture she was in a bikini what jerk why would he do that ?

[LOVEART]

Not to be insensitive lol but what guy do you know would actually give you a hand-shake for liking his girlfriend's picture of her being in a "bikini"?

No offense but you asked that question like " I thought I was going to get ice cream with that" lmso...

but yeah no guy wants competition, friend or no friend and he probably thought it was disrespectful for one because he "knows" you're her friend...it's like why would you like a picture of your friend in a bikini "if" you had no interest, and esp. because you're a guy. He probably figures you're closer to her than he is and is just like hell no...not taking any chances

[Jared1211]

I guess right but its her account he shouldn't control who her friends are but its cool I can still just talk to her offline anyway doesn't make any sense.

[LOVEART]

That's her dealings, it's her account so she can give control to whomever she pleases to, which isn't a wise decision to do, but it's her account.

He would probably also think it's disrespectful for you to be talking to her offline even more so, just saying...as long as you're respecting common relationship boundaries then all should be well

[Jared1211]

I have been completely respectful to her I know where only friends and I would never cross any boundaries with her and she knows that her boyfriend is just insecure.

[LOVEART]

That could very much be the case, I hope everything is settled in a decent respectful manner between you, him and her...even though that doesn't sound right but yeah..lol

[Stacyzee]

He is obviously a real jealous guy. He doesn't want the thought of thinking that someone else finds his girl attractive.

[kairon156]

I've been in a similar situation as you and I've had a few online female friends who just vanished which I would suspect something like this might be going on.

I hate anyone who is insecure to the point they don't want/let their partner have friends of the opposite gender.

[Jared1211]

Yeah I was totally respectful to her at all times its sad how insecure people can be

[TheUglyOne]

Just for a like? Dang, that's really insecure and petty! Guys like and even compliment my wife's pictures on Facebook and her QQZone accounts, doesn't faze me the least. In fact, I'm kinda glad I'm not with a woman that no other man in the world thinks is beautiful lol.

[Jared1211]

Yeah I know I think he is insecure I mean why else would he do it.

[TheUglyOne]

I can't think of any other reason, unless he thought he had reason to believe you'd make a move on her. (note I'm not saying you would, just proposing he might think you would.)

[Jared1211]

Well honestly I'm not sure I mean I'm not blind I do find her attractive but I'm respectful

[handsomejackk]

And yet another strike against Facebook.

To a boyfriend - who takes FB seriously - it would be too easy to assume that one "like", you know, an action that only takes one impulsive click of the mouse and not a whole lot of forethought, means you're into her and she might cheat with you.

It adds a whole new, and very unnecessary, dynamic to relationships.

[astutefl]

How did her Boyfriend delete you off her FB? He has access to her account and deleted you? It's her account, I'm sure she agreed to have you removed. If he has a problem with her posting pics of her in a bikini and guys liking it, he should tell her not to post them, not delete guys for liking them, pretty lame BF.

[kespethdude]

He's jealous. A serious red flag for relationships, but that's his and her problem, not yours. Don't worry about it. Just hope they can work it out.

[kespethdude]

Spammer alert! admin please ban.

[ArrograntWarrior]

not bad at least he didn't make her delete you from her Facebook

[throwit]

what guy would want other guys looking at half naked pictures of their girlfriends?

why would you like that picture anyway!

[Jared1211]

Its only a picture I don't see what the big deal is I liked her other pictures and nothing happened then

[throwit]

she wasn't in her bra and panties in the other pictures was she?

and if a guy liked a picture of me in my bikini, the only thing I'd be thinking is he just likes it because I'm half naked.

i think her boyfriend is in the right here.

[Jared1211]

She was in a bathing suit 2 piece I seen her wear before in person so I don't know what's the big deal about me liking a photo of her in it.

[throwit]

any guy is gunna think other guys are checking out his girl. and if she's in the equivilant of bra and panties, of course he's not gunna like it!

you can't really blame him. see it from his perspective.

maybe he's just more protective/ possessive than others