My best friend deleted me over Facebook!

[Anonymous]

Me and my guy best friend. We've been through many ups and downs and we've always come out stronger. I am the type of person if we have any problems, I like it to be solved quickly and efficiently while he likes to wait many days to cool off. Anyway, me and him, we've been close and me and him end up liking each other and things happened. Anyway, I am good friends with his ex-girlfriend and well, I told his ex-girlfriend that things happened between me and him. I was going to tell him on the night I told my friend but he was busy so I waited. Anyway, he found out before I got the chance to say anything. He got very upset and started to ignore my calls, text messages and wouldn't even read any of my messages. I left him messages on Facebook and he hasn't replied. He even deleted me off Facebook! I didn't think I did anything wrong. I wasn't upset when he told his best friend about us and was fine with it. And when I tell one person, he deletes me off Facebook. I didn't think it was a big deal but I am wrong. I know I am at fault and I've been trying to contact him to talk but he won't even reply at all. What do I do? I don't know what to do.

She asked me. I didn't go off running and telling her. She didn't tell him I told her. He guessed that she knew because unfortunately, she is very easy to read.

Ignore him and wait till he calls back.

Ignore him and give him a week till I call again.

Call him now.

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+1 y

It has been four days since we haven't talked. He is leaving for a holiday in about two-three days. Should I call him back after he goes on holiday or just before it?

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+1 y

i don't get what's so wrong with it!

[questionsneedanswers]

Was he trying to get back together with his ex? If he was (and you told her something that affects that) he might be mad because of what you said.

First of all, I think he shouldn't get mad at you because you told her if she asked. If you told her without her asking, he can be mad at you.

I think that you guys should give each other some more space. Leave him alone for a while. If a guy think a girl is annoying, they'll start ignoring you, because they might think if they answer that you'd get your hopes up and keep on bugging them.

He needs to understand once you've left him alone. Send him a message or speak to him face to ace (if he lets you) and explain with full honesty and sincerity.

[Asker]

He and his ex are far from getting back together if you knew their history.

Well, I thought he was mad at me, just because I told his EX out of all people. But I didn't think it was a big deal. He deleted me off Facebook and wouldn't reply to anything.

[questionsneedanswers]

Oh, OK.

[MeridiansAAngel]

Why would you do that? You don't know his feelings though.. he could have regretted what you guys did together.. and you went an told anyways.

[Asker]

Why wouldn't I tell? He told his friend. I told mine.

[whodatmikevick]

OH NO HE DELETED YOU OFF OF FACEBOOK? some1 call 911..

[Asker]

he hasn't replied to anything and well, this is just extreme. and I don't know what to do.

[prettymuscle]

its just facbook, its not the end of the world

[Asker]

i know but he hasn't replied to calls or texts and I don't know what to do.

[prettymuscle]

just leave him alone then, if he doesn't wanna talk to you , don't force it

[Blankname1]

I would pick B.Give it a week and call him.

[Asker]

Thank you for your help :)