This is one of the many reasons that I don't believe in couples living together before marriage. I realize I will probably be crucified for saying that. But seriously...move out. Any man who can't be faithful to you and respectful, and not block you for petty reasons, and will save up to marry you, doesn't deserve to move in with you.
I sure hope you haven't been giving him a whole lot of sex, because he certainly hasn't earned it.
A gal I once knew was a real user. So that's my frame of reference. If he's gonna act like her with her numerous exes, then he doesn't really deserve anyone - least of all you.
And yes, NeighborGuy has a point. Facebook is one of the most abused social tools ever invented.
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My assessment of this would be that he is that he is flirting with girls and doesn't want you to see. If it was nothing he wouldn't make such a big deal about it. Especially if you are living together. Its definitely not a good sign.
I say you should talk to him about it again. I don't know how serious you two are but if you are living together this kind of behavior is far beneath you.
It sounds like he's mad because he got caught flirting with another girl.
It is just Facebook, but here's the thing - hiding ANYTHING from your partner is fishy. Honestly, if it were me, I'd assume he's cheating or at least trying to cheat. If he was completely innocent, he wouldn't want to or even feel the need to block you from seeing what he's doing and saying.
It's a bad sign, it may be time to get out of this relationship.
Ugh, Facebook. I've never had it and never will.
Make him move out. You shouldn't have to bear the torture of him toying with your emotions and be forced to move out. He brought it upon himself. The relationship is headed no where after that and he's obviously very immature. You'd be better off with any other man and deserve someone who treats you right and cares about you and compliments you. But after that, you definitely deserve the apartment as well. Good luck and I hope everything turns out right for you.
You're not dating him anymore. He can say what he wants to other girls, and he shouldn't have to justify it to you. I have deleted exes and people I'm no longer friends with because if they're not a part of my life anymore, there is really no reason to be looking at their Facebook or for them to have access to mine.
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request your friend to see it for you and find out for your self.
if needed, take some screenshots of it and show that to him and see his reaction. If he becomes defensive about it saying "you're steeling my privacy" responde by "you're steeling my life by doing this" cause that's what's happening
although... don't be obsessive about thatYou did it to yourself...he complimented a girl...big dea. If he
d been caught making plans to meet up with her or making real comments that were over the line...then that would be a different story. But this is small and petty, and he was probably right to delete you. It doesn't do anyone any good to be on their significant others' Facebook. Let it go, or he might let you go.Bad relationship. Move out. The sooner the better.
Or go ahead an suffer a few more years until you learn to move out on your own. (This is far more likely.)F*** that f***** if he's gonna compliment a girl and block you ... Your suppose to keep on with it? , honestly I would be a boyfriend every girl would want I'm nice and never lie steal nor cheat ... Tell him it's either you leave or that bitch should stop complementing girls when he doesn't complement his own
Omg. He is a big baby. Seriously, you caught him flirting with another girl (inappropriate) and he didn't like that the power balance was messed up. I would leave.
He's cheating or trying too. Been there done that exact same thing. Delete the girlfriend so she don't see the comments. Trust me If he's not it's the start of it.
My boyfriend of two years deleted Facebook , deleted me and created a new page with no face but under his own name. Won't add me to his new page then lied and said he doesn't talk on messenger deleted me off that as well
And I have confronted him that led to a fight.
We live togetherWell first if you live together, you should know more about him then what he does on Facebook. second he sounds like an immature idiot! Find someone more worthy of you
You can either cut your losses and move out now and break it off or wait for him to cheat on you. He's clearly dishonest and wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Facebook message the girl who he is hitting on and tell her what the guy did. Then he won't be able to have either of you. He doesn't deserve a girl at all
The only advice worth giving - stop trying to control what he does on social media.
It's that simple.
If you're going to break up with guy, at least have the decency to find a real reason. And not flippin Facebook.dump him disappear from his life so he suffers wondering how he lost a great girl like you...
move out don't even tell him where your going tell your friends not to talk to himwhat's a two year old doing with a Facebook account and a 25 year old girlfriend?
Don't let this Facebook sh*t ruin your life,this stupid thing called Facebook does more bad than good,it was meant to connect people with each other but it became more like annoying sh*t and attention whoring tool
Well, since you live together he can't very well avoid you. Corner him and demand an explanation.
sounds to me he's trying to cheat with another girl. If you live with each other then you have a problem. Just move out and dump him asap
you live with him... just talk to him... like in real life...
It's just Facebook. Who cares if he deleted you? You're still in a relationship with him and you live with him.
Good god the problems Facebook causes.
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