How to ask girl to dance (twerk) at party and how to dance with her?

[Anonymous]

I'm going to a my friends graduation party and I don't really no how to ask the girl I like to dance with me. We text and talk a lot and she said she like to twerk but I need help asking her to dance and hoe to dance on her.

[RubyRedRox]

As a lover of all things dance you have some options:

1) she's already dancing: just go up to her with a smile on your face and twirl her around (dance a bit separate at first).

2) she's not dancing: ask for her hand and lead her to the dance floor, and again start slow and dance separate.

There is nothing I LOATH more than having a guy grind on me when I am trying to dance to one of my songs. Personally I DON'T like to grind (with some exceptions). I would prefer if I danced separate with the guy first and then he or I initiate it, I like it when they ask first.

What is even better than grinding is dancing face to face, like lambada style. It's not only hot but you get a better connection with the person rather than having their junk on your trunk and their face in your hair :|

[Asker]

Thanks but if we start grinding how do I hold or move her

[RubyRedRox]

No clue, the guys I have grinded with suck.

But the thing that sucked about them was that they were so touchy, they didn't follow my hips or lead me (if they did it was repetitive and boring). And their face was in my hair -_-

Maybe you should first hold her hands so she won't think you are dry humping her then with her hands in your hands gradually lay them on her hips and move them from side to side with your pelvis following along.

[RubyRedRox]

Have verity, not only side to side maybe also in wide circles or small circles, just have fun and don't be embarrassed about trying new things.

[Asker]

Would you like a boner on your ass while grinding or nun or would you personally want to pop an bounce your booty or just roll your hips

[RubyRedRox]

... I don't dance like most people. most people repeat the same movements, I make up my own.

And if I am not into this guy and he isn't my fiance then heck no I wouldn't like it!

I wouldn't even be flattered, I'd just be kind of creeped out or annoyed.

[Asker]

Wat if he was your boyfriend and you liked him

[RubyRedRox]

I am a peculiar person, I rather do that in privacy, I am not one for public displays unless we're dancing face to face but that also has some cultural undertones for me.

[Asker]

Oh OK thank you do you have any questions you need answered

[ShadowHunter123]

So if a random man came up to you and began to grind on you when you were shaking your ass and got hard you would be annoyed? If he got a boner, doesn't that mean your fucking hot and are good at twerking? Why wouldn't you like that?

[bijinbijinbijin]

when I twerk I don't dance with anyone. Twerk is more of a dance for girls to do and guys to watch. Have you seen the twerk team? they are girls. If guys danced like that then they would be called gay.

However if she is already dancing, just go up there and dance with her. When its loud in the place you can't really talk anyway to ask her.

If girls are shaking their butts its automatically expected that a guy is gonna come and latch on to her and start grinding anyway so if you want to dance with her while she is shaking her butt go do it, I doubt she will push you off of her.

[Asker]

I know the twerk team yes but where I live girls do twerk on boys when there at parties but thank you and you don't think she will get mad if I don't ask

[ShadowHunter123]

Okay that makes sense. So, if I was at a party and I see a girl I find hot shaking her ass, I can walk up and just pull her to me? How would I do that? Do I grab the edge of her pants or hips? How do you suggest grinding?

[Anonymous]

I have the same problem except I'm a girl who doesn't know how to ask a guy if I can twerk him lol I'm really shy:( but I want to do it! Hahaha I'm going to a party tonight and I don't wanna be the loser who's not dancing:( I was thinking of taking some shots or try to before I go to loosen me up a bit

[Germanleon]

Thats a good idea. I am that shy too. Did it work out for you?

[i-can-help]

ok i gotchu listen if you just walk over to him and start it he will like it right away (im a guy)

[Donnie3915]

Just ask her if she would like to dance, and let the magic happen

[Shameneyes]

twerk equals dance?

[Asker]

How do I ask her to dance with me how to dance when she twerks on me?

[Shameneyes]

what does twerk mean lol I can't help if I don't know what you are talking about X)

[Asker]

Its like booty shaking and grinding

[Shameneyes]

grind back lol

[Asker]

like she shakes her as* on me will it be OK to stroke her or just roll my hips'with her

[RubyRedRox]

0.o stroke her? what do you mean? sounds kind of creeper status right thur

[Shameneyes]

I some how feel embarrassed now :0 Just do what feels natural I guess

[Asker]

When I say stroke her I don't mean it like in a perverted way just like pulling my hips back then coming back and hitting her ass with my penis

[RubyRedRox]

You mean dry dog humping.

Dude get a blow up doll instead.

[Asker]

You seem very outgoing may I ask how old you are

[Shameneyes]

that is pretty much perversion :0 I don't think she is out going... you seem introverted to some extent (>.>)

[Asker]

I am shy but what age did you first have sex

[Shameneyes]

I'm a virgin and 17 :p