How would you react?
Mostly looking for a female persecutive but for guys also: have you ever felt the "elevator moment" and grabbed a girl for the passionate kiss without being verbally invited (and not while on a date or when you were both drunk) how did she react?
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A few times in my life I have been caught in a situation with a work colleague or a stranger when we have just looked at each other and it really felt like there was a sudden lust for each other and for sex (or at least passionately kissing) at that moment. That at that moment she really is imaging in her mind my kissing her passionately or touching and possibly us getting down to do something.
Now this sounds like rapist thinking so let me say that I am extremely respectful of women, very well behaved and mannered and have very natural sexual thoughts and nothing deviant in nature and that I am sensitive to womens emotions
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I call it the elevator moment... as the most vivid example I have is working back late at the office one time and then heading for the elevator at the same time as my beautiful co-worker with who I had a mutually flirty relationship. When the door to the elevator closed her skin went so hot and flushed red (from breasts up) and her mouth opened and our eyes locked hard. I came closer than ever in my life to grabbing her passionately and pushing her back against the wall and really passionately kissing her. It definitely wasn't a moment for me to say "umm so do you want to go out sometime, or hey I really like you do you think..." it felt like the moment called for action.
Anyway I was too scared about what would happen if I was completely mistaken (although don't think I was) we were both single at the time though so there would have been no drama in that regard and I kind of got the feeling from other conversations that we had had that she didn't have much action in her life at that moment and was a fairly sexual girl.
For more info>her and I definitely liked each other and thought highly of each other
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Ladies have you ever just wanted a guy that was in your presence to grab you and kiss you passionately? (maybe you know/don't know him, but do find him attractive). has it ever happened to you? how would you/did you react? and what do you think of my situation - should I have allowed myself to flow with the situation or was I right to hold back?
(BTW this happened ages ago and I am not hung up on the girl, I am interested in knowing whether girls do have moments like that and how they would react, because if the feeling struck me again I might go for it with the next girl)
Mostly looking for a female persecutive but for guys also: have you ever felt the "elevator moment" and grabbed a girl for the passionate kiss without being verbally invited (and not while on a date or when you were both drunk) how did she react?
SHORT VERSION>
A few times in my life I have been caught in a situation with a work colleague or a stranger when we have just looked at each other and it really felt like there was a sudden lust for each other and for sex (or at least passionately kissing) at that moment. That at that moment she really is imaging in her mind my kissing her passionately or touching and possibly us getting down to do something.
Now this sounds like rapist thinking so let me say that I am extremely respectful of women, very well behaved and mannered and have very natural sexual thoughts and nothing deviant in nature and that I am sensitive to womens emotions
LONG VERSION/EXAMPLE>
I call it the elevator moment... as the most vivid example I have is working back late at the office one time and then heading for the elevator at the same time as my beautiful co-worker with who I had a mutually flirty relationship. When the door to the elevator closed her skin went so hot and flushed red (from breasts up) and her mouth opened and our eyes locked hard. I came closer than ever in my life to grabbing her passionately and pushing her back against the wall and really passionately kissing her. It definitely wasn't a moment for me to say "umm so do you want to go out sometime, or hey I really like you do you think..." it felt like the moment called for action.
Anyway I was too scared about what would happen if I was completely mistaken (although don't think I was) we were both single at the time though so there would have been no drama in that regard and I kind of got the feeling from other conversations that we had had that she didn't have much action in her life at that moment and was a fairly sexual girl.
For more info>her and I definitely liked each other and thought highly of each other
QUESTIONS>
Ladies have you ever just wanted a guy that was in your presence to grab you and kiss you passionately? (maybe you know/don't know him, but do find him attractive). has it ever happened to you? how would you/did you react? and what do you think of my situation - should I have allowed myself to flow with the situation or was I right to hold back?
(BTW this happened ages ago and I am not hung up on the girl, I am interested in knowing whether girls do have moments like that and how they would react, because if the feeling struck me again I might go for it with the next girl)
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