I stopped doing it specifically because girls complained about it in the past. I was called clingy.
Itâs to the point where Iâll go days or even weeks without texting you if you donât reply. If youâre not my girlfriend you might not hear from me again.
But strangely this has worked better for me. Itâs taught me not to be so needy for a âresponseâ from someone I just met.
I think a lot of people double text for validation. For me I would take it personal if a girl left me on read or didnât reply in what I considered a reasonable amount of time. It made me feel ignored.
But after I stopped âwantingâ a response I learned that I didnât need one. Either a girl is into me or sheâs not. Begging for replies wonât change that. Itâll only stress you out in the long run while theyâre out not even knowing youâre stressed out. So no I donât double text. I reply when I feel like it and wait for a response. Itâs not the end of the world if I donât get one.
I texted with u a bit and what u do isnât what people usually understand as double texting. Iâll give u an example
Boyâwhat r u doing todayâ Girl:ânothingâ Boy:âwell I wondered if we could go out on a date. I really like uâ 2h Pass girl reads but doesnât text back Boy:âyou could at least tell me why u donât wanna go instead of ignoring me?â 2h pass again turns on read still no reply Boyâ u r such a stupid bitch!â 2h later Girl:âI was just busy! ASSHOLEâ
So basically double texting is mainly if u donât get a reply and then text again some hours late
I do it all the time. Plus, both my boyfriend and my bestfriend have the habit to keep sending messages like "hey... hellooo... stop ignoring your phoooneeeeeeee... heeeeyyy" until they get an answer so I'm used to it myself
My best friend and I do that as well. He's like "?" "?". "?". I think it's funny lol. It's only annoying when I'm at work, in which case I tell him to chill.
I honestly donât care if I double text. If itâs just a friend who cares but if itâs someone your interested in, that might let them know that your comfortable with him I guess.
I do quite often, actually. I don't really care if it's annoying or smth, if I need to add something more or correct a wrong term I wrote, I'll do it. Multi texting is another thing, and I kinda hate it :D
I do and sometimes octuple text, but it's like each text is three paragraphs in my case. :-D I just like to hit enter after a few paragraphs so that I don't accidentally close the app by accident or something and lose the text I was working on. Also, it helps me to kind of submit something and mull over it a bit to help me figure out what to write next.
There are also sometimes character limits on the text like 2000 characters per message (and sometimes the apps get very awkward and stupid if you go over), so I've gotten in the habit of breaking them up if I want to write something that's, say, 35,000 characters long.
It's kind of difficult for me to answer these complex questions people ask me though like, "How are you?" Then I have to think about how I am and what sort of day and I'm having and maybe how the week was going and what my plans are things of this sort.
[...] and what sort of day [I'm] having and maybe how the week was going and what my plans are [and] things of this sort. And maybe how my life is like and what sort of mental state in and what I'm contemplating and what sort of problems I'm working on solving and so forth. :-D :-D :-D
breaks up walls of text i guess... although can be annoying when you see you got 20 notifications and think the world loves you for them all to be the same person going "hey" "so" "i was thinking" "..." hey?"
I believe truly it confuses the whole conversation. Because your constantly pasting texts together to make up a conversation. But I think the only exception is correcting your text, or this done on occasion. Not every conversation.
I used to not anymore. Only time I do now is because my mind sometimes writes 4 things that should have been one text. But ya I don't care anymore don't text do text don't matter. Ogars can't be choosers😂
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nope not me. but my sister does it to everyone and it drives me crazy. :P
Usually if I wanted to add to the previous one. I donât see it as a bad thing at all and it makes me wonder why it is such a turn off for some people.
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