He used to date her mom too? Michael Haugabook had three other kids from different women and a 2-year old daughter with Deja before their marriage.
According to reports the old man had been grooming his goddaughter since childhood as a picture seen showed the man carrying the little girl when she was just a little girl.
Deja is now also said to be a mother of a 1-year-old girl and is also caring for Michael’s 3 kids, making it 4 kids she’s responsible for at 18.
Something about this just doesn’t sit right with me, I mean he’s known her since she was a literal baby? That’s weird, he’s literally like an uncle to her so it definitely feels like this was a grooming situation.
She also claims that she’s with a older man that has his stuff in check but he’s definitely not rich. He’s got a criminal history with cocaine
Deja also via her social media addressed the issues, noting that she’s a grown woman who’s capable of making her own decisions.
I think that her parents need to be held accountable. Dejas mothers a drug addict so she probably didn’t care for her daughter enough to realize that she was literally being groomed by her god uncle?
Is it creepy this 61 year old married his 18 year old god daughter?
I can't judge anybody for anything if people are happy in their happy it's none of my business and what I mean by that is I have better things to do than to look into other people's business judge them or just because I feel something doesn't mean that I'm right so if I meet somebody hang in there friend unconditionally I don't have to think or assume our project anything about them it makes life really really easy with no drama like they say people with big brains are trying to figure out how to go to different planets people with medium Braves are talking about baseball field what kind of clothes to buy medicines vaccine cures And people with small brains talk about other people because they're so much better than them oh well Life Goes On the learning process
Unless there is proof of grooming. There is nothing really wrong with this even if "creepy" . Though tbf i think anyone who goes around saying poppin my shit and then repeats this phase over and over... is a chav and probably isn't the smartest responsible person in the world.
So she probably was groomed and probably ruin her kids life's.
Oh and if he dated the mother too then yeah that's a no. Tbh just sounds like a guy who likes sleeping with a lot of women which then if you sleep with a mother and her daughter which then also you knew from a baby that's just nah.
That's not proof though. Grooming is a specific action of when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them. Knowing them as child then does nothing for 30 years then gets with her after she turned 18 and wanted to, if no manipulation, abuse is involved that's not grooming.
Ah well then that is proof then. I dunno i found my babysitter hot and she knew me since i was a baby, if i then turned 16 (legal age here) and still wanted her and asked her out that would be me wanting what i want out of my own and not her manipulation. If she tried anything before that then yes it would be. Which you say they admitted they did, which then yes that is wrong.
She already looks like a 40 year old woman whose kids grew up and now she doesn't need to cook at home anymore.
This is the life she wanted she even says it. Unless this man taught her these values she wants to have, it sounds to me like she made a conscious mature decision despite her age and what people will say about the science of brain development.
We all are not exactly the same.
Is it bizarre as fuck? Hell yea it is. But guess what? Its still legal. Do y'all think there should be a law? Should we raise the minimum age to 30 or something?
Oh yea i forgot about that. That makes it extra strange on both their parts.
Kids dont really grow up being sexually attracted to people they grew up with.
Did he know her? Yes. Was he around all the time? I dont know.
Probably not. Maybe he did know her but ye wasn't like a big part of her life?
Im just trying to figure how its possible for this girl to have sex with a man she grew up with.
Either he somehow manipulated her into sexual attraction yo him through the years, or he just wasn't even around that much in the first place. More stranger than family.
Who knows. Sure is strange shit. Either way she seems to know what she wants.
I don’t understand why she’d be attracted to him, no offense but he’s not on the top of the list when it comes to men to procreate with. And that’s including the looks and just overall history department since he’s got a bad criminal history
Grooming is soft language for brainwashing. Also people love to say that you are a adult at the age of 18. But mentally and emotionally many people are not even close to being adults at the age of 18. So to me the entire thing is really messed up.
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