So I have this friend, she used to go out with my crush. They broke up 4 years ago. She has a new boyfriend who she is head over heels for. She always told me how she hated my crush and how he was so perverted and she hates him. I told her I liked him like 2 years ago, but as far as she knows I don't like him anymore, but I still do. And we were talking a few months ago and she said she thinks me and him would make a good couple and I didn't tell her I liked him I just said well he does make me laugh a lot. She said yea he is really funny. And then she started talking about how these 2 girls alway say he likes her and she is always trying to make it sound like they are meant to be together and they have all theses secret thing going on together, which I don't think is true. They had PE together 1st semester of last year (I was in it) and when we would be doing warmups like skipping he would always cut in font of her and cut her off. The thing is, I think he likes me because there are a ton of signs, but he never did that cut me off thing in PE. He always would tease me and make flirtatious remarks and one time he came and asked if he could play basketball with me. But anyway, my friend and I think she knows something about him liking me because she always teases me about us getting married, but then she goes and says stuff about how he always calls her stupid and stuff like that, which makes me jealous of course. So is it possible he still likes her after 4 years? or did he do that stuff in PE to make me jealous? I think my friend is exaggerating I don't really think her and my crush tease back and forth like she says they do because I never see them talk. But it still makes me jealous. Why would she do this? Thanks.
Update: I get really sad when I think abut this because I was so sure he liked me but then when I hear her talk about stuff about her and him I am like well I guess he still likes her and it makes me sad because I like him a lot. I don't know what to think.
5 months ago
He probably does still like her. However, that's not a bad thing. They have probably reached a level of friendship that many people don't reach. Instead of developing a friendship, which can only happen if you process any pain and losses of a relationship, in order to have the ability to have a healthy friendship, most people go separate ways and bury the pain or otherwise anesthetize or deal with it.
To be honest, the only way to know if he likes you is to ask him. Don't be afraid of the answer. You can't be any more not an item than you are now, so talk to him and see what happens. Don't be afraid, or jealous, of their friendship. While they tease and stuff, it is probably more of a sibling style relationship, where the siblings don't have to compete or otherwise earn the affection of someone else. In other words, they probably act like siblings in a healthy family, where teasing and fun are part of the package. You may be gaining the equivalent of a sister-in-law that you like.
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