Guys think I'm really ugly. They either ignore me, or mock me behind my back/to my face. I've done everything I can (weight loss, make-up) but guys still aren't attracted to me. They won't even send me messages online.
I'm 27, and it looks more and more like I'm going to spend my life single and alone. (All my friends are married.) I really, really want a husband and a family, but that is just never gonna happen.
you need to snap out of this wallowing in self-loathing and find a life coach who will tell you where you are going wrong,"if the mountain won't come to mohammed."You need to go join places were there are more men.eg sport clubs, gyms, comic book stores,starbucks,bars,cat sanctuary,whatever it may be. My sister was 34 when she got married, she had met her soul mate at a kite surfing lesson,prior to that she had little or no luck with men so it just goes to show its these little changes to our schedules,little steps outside our comfort zones is where these unique encounters happen.
My sister had given up on men along time ago,instead she chose to have a life of her own and then even to this day she can't believe she met paul at a kite surfing lesson,she had a dozen excuses not to go but she sure is glad to this day she got off her ass and went.
its not about looks or a fiery personality...its attitude and fighting spirit!
Definitely not. Personality and character outshine looks so try to build that up. Don't forget all your family and friends - they're more important to you than anyone else really. Remember, if you're finding a guy, he's only ONE guy. People have preferences so don't get down if they don't pick you.
It is not worth killing yourself just because you haven't found the right guy (singular/hubby material).