I was staying at a friend's house for a week taking care of his young 6 yo son and his 12yo niece and one night I was watching a movie with his niece and fell asleep on the couch next to her. She then fell asleep on me. I didn't know what I was thinking because I was so tired but I put my arms around her and snuggled her and we fell asleep in each others arms.
I awoke a few hours later and felt really weird about it.
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As long as you weren't sporting wood, or thinking, or doing 'naughty' things, it's what you SHOULD do, caring for kids!! They don't have the hang-ups, and anxiety we have, older, seeing the news, and just all the crp that we would NEVER do!!
They just see us as 'parents', or 'uncles' or whatever!!
Even if you get that totally embarrassing, unintentional 'woodie' just turn away, and know that it isn't sexual, but just spontaneous, like when you are super tired (or the Fates, and Furies are fcking with you!!) They probably won't notice, and it doesn't mean that you are a 'perv', because of that uncontrollable reaction!!
I'm dealing with this, now, with my current girlfriend and her teen daughter!! They laugh, because I am so unsure, seeing the teen daughter naked, casually, here and there!! It isn't anything to them, but a HUGE hang-up to me!
I don't want to be nervous, with her, or her mother, and I don't think nudity is that big of a deal, like sexuality, but I grew up a certain way, and there are laws, and I don't want to be the one, in the court, fighting for my first amendment rights. . .1