Search Results: guys and housework

Is there a big chance I will become a housewife if we were to get married?

I've always been terrified of the housewife life. I'd seriously rather die than be trapped doing housework all day, every day, for decades. I currently am in an LDR with a guy who's from the other side of the world. We're...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, Married men only. What is your favourite household chore that you do because you like it rather than because you're expected to do it?

The world has been telling men they're not showing up enough in the household support department for years. The notion of getting home, sitting down, telling her to "Make me a sandwich and cuppa tea" is no longer the...

Shiprex

Guru Age: 55

Girls, would you date an Indian-origin guy like me?

I am a research scholar (physics) of Indian origin who lives in the West. A lot of people don't realise that India is a big country with a lot of variation, and they club all of us together. I grew up in a very liberal...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, would you date a guy like me (if not, why)?

27-year old PhD student in Math/Theoretical Physics. Apart from academic, I read and collect a lot of books, mostly a classics/history/sci-fi lover. But they are a lot and in different languages ( 5 languages). I write...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I need answers please, girls/guys (excuse my English, it's not my 1st L)?

I feel like my family secretly hate me, except one of my sisters, (im not from the us), in my culture it's very normal to still live with your parents in your 20's, i have been working since the age of 16, studying, i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He asked what I did for work, I said I’m currently job searching then he asked if I would clean his house?

Long story short I’ve been on Facebook Dating just to see what’s out there. I came across a guy with a really weird profile picture which looked like he was being bit by a crocodile. I was curious but the only way to...

TsundereMatrix

Influencer Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Why are men acting like we are delusional because we chose bears? They have been mistreating us for centuries and still act like vicitms.

A man will literally expect you to give away your feminine energy, your body, and your time just to ask you to split the bill and do it all while working a job otherwise you're 'useless' and you don't contribute, even...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Girls, do you not like responsible type of guys?

My family was relatively poor. I had to work a lot alongside studies from a very early age. I had to take care of my brother, do a lot of housework, and learn all things that are traditionally considered for girls... like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are those women who expect men to pay for everything, actually low quality?

A girl who expects men to pay for everything generally cares only about the money, not the guy. They will most likely ignore any personal flaws or other qualities in a guy. Generally, guys like such are drawn to such...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what would you do if your spouse didn't defend you when you were falsely accused of DV by her friends?

Unfortunately the original story is gone, so here is the TLDR from the bits and pieces that i can find. The only background needed: She threw a surprise birthday party when they were dating. She, while the house was dark...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can a guy who can cook and clean and a traditional minded girl ever work?

I never have problems with doing housework and cooking. I grew up mostly alone and doing all of my works from a very young age and I probably cook better than celebrity chefs. A traditional minded girl who expects men to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you try to see positive even when life throws you pain?

Ngl, this past week has been the toughest and the most painful I’ve ever experienced in my life. I broke my leg in 2 places, due to silly competition I was playing in high boots that were totally unsuitable for...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Is this romantic love or platonic love?

im seeing a guy right now. we cuddle in every date for hours. We enjoy it so much that the hours literally fly by. Even after 5 hours of cuddling, I was still unwilling to let him go. For the rest the night after the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a guy do everything for you to sleep with him?

What does it mean, when a guy will do evergthing like he will do all the houseworks and he will do all I want and he will never make me sad... etc. All to marriage him (to sleep with him)

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Stairway To Sexism

STAIRWAY TO SEXISM pt. 3 Why sleeping around with multiple men is meant to insult women while the same thing other way around is a huge compliment to men? Screw your evolutionary perspective. It's so anti-woman, like, Oh...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

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Why do narcissistic people in a relationship want someone to offer them the world but they have little to none to offer in return?

Who would want it? Especially the type of people who could get anyone they wanted. There is women who bitch they can’t find a decent guy… They want expensive stuff. They don’t want to work… yet they also want the guy to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do people with mental abuse tendency get better?

In anger outbursts he'd call me names he'd question my upbringing shout and scream and get aggressive If I'm going to work dressed well. Checks my phone and laptop. Doesn't defend me against his family. Lost his job and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you realize, just like traditional men find it hard to date traditional women in the west, non-traditional men also find dating hard in the east?

If you are a guy that is independent and educated and isn't a mama's boy, you will find it very difficult to date in traditional countries. I have lived in Asian traditional countries and am friends with many cultures, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)