In anger outbursts he'd call me names he'd question my upbringing shout and scream and get aggressive If I'm going to work dressed well. Checks my phone and laptop. Doesn't defend me against his family. Lost his job and rolls around the bed all day. Blames his insecurities and violent behavior on his joblessness. But he was like this even before losing his job. He'd go to work and video call me to check on me. Keep me on call if I'm free. Ask me who's talking to me. Why did I laugh. Of I'm laughing at a guy's jokes. After losing job he'd demand I come back right after my classes are over. I'm a university lecturer. I have to stay at university with other tasks besides giving lectures. I haveto maintain my 8 hour workday. But since he's home I gotta come home if I get half an hour break because my house is right next door. And I do. I do come home to see him. if I don't and he's in a bad mood he'd say you're making my Mom do all the housework. Did u ask if I've eaten if my parents have eaten?
He says disgusting things about my sis and mom. Say my parents didn't raise me well. Swears at me. Says I hang out with guys I am gonna cheat. I can't do out without him to anywhere. He sits aeound and I have to come home after a long day and clean the house and serve him his food because he doesn't eat without me.
He created a big thing and I had to flee his house. He was getting violent and saying I cheated. I left home. Said I'm divorcing. He's crying and says he's changed just after 3 weeks. he went to psychiatrist and he got meds for bipolar and anxiety and everyone in his family says he made a mistake and he's changed due to the meds after only 3weeks and that I shouldn't think about divorcing. He's saying I'm not being fair and giving him a last chance. He's all calm now and doesn't getangey even if I was so rude to him telling what he's done to me. Is it all an act?
