My family was relatively poor. I had to work a lot alongside studies from a very early age. I had to take care of my brother, do a lot of housework, and learn all things that are traditionally considered for girls... like cooking, and sewing. Alongside all of this I was always valedictorian in high school, college... and now am a grad student.
I have been riddled with responsibilities all of my life... had to take care of family.. other people. My experience with girls so far is always bad. They only have seen me as a homework help or helping hand for their problems but they don't wanna date me. I have always seen... fun guys that party, drink regularly, and have cars... born in rich families were always popular with girls and they see guys like us in a light of disgust.
So far I never had a girlfriend. I fear in the future I will have to end up with someone whom again I have to take care of. They will only see me as a settling guy but never actually like me as a person...
What Girls Said
You're clearly lying when you say girls like guys that drink a lot which means you might also be lying about being valedictorian.
seriously? You have never seen girls liking the popular guys in class? Have you ever been to high school or higher ! If yes, then it may be your area that is somewhat special.
responsible guys r best guys in my opinion