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Search Results: should i call first
Is it normal she wants pricey gifts and a ring but keeps options open?
I have went on 6 dates with a girl over 3 weeks. on the 5th date she showed me pics of a ring and asked me to go to the mall where that store is since my workplace is near there. Next day i went, sent her pics, and she...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I text him directly after no reply, or just move on from dating?
I’m pretty social and have close friends but i feel a bit awkward when it comes to dating. Especially as a girl who was socialized around traditional norms I refrain from approaching men unless they come to me first. Even...
Anonymous
(25-29) She’s healing from a past relationship—should I pursue or move on?
Apparently, I'm talking to this girl who recently gotten out of a courtship that went wrong. It appears she's healing from it and needs some time to get her emotions together. I was just curious. I was thinking of talking...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get distant and mean when everything was going good?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get mean and distant?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I keep dating this guy?
We met in person April & I work overnight so that’s y we meet 3-4am. I live on opposite side of town from him one hour away and my job is bit closer to him 35min& there’s no traffic 3-6am to him. we have Mostly long deep...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did anyone else also stop kissing peoples asses when they got older (regardless if it is friends or family)?
Before I was a moron, and didn't respect myself. I was a good person and still am but dang but of how much of a wuss I was before. I hit up people more than once if they didn't respond back within hours, call them first ,...
Steven80000
Xper 5 Age: 34 My abusive boyfriend changed and is sweet now—should I still leave?
To start off, I’m a senior in highschool and have been dating my boyfriend since beginning of sophomore year. For the first two years, he was extremely controlling and verbally abusive. I’ve always struggled with my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this girl also at fault, and should I keep my distance from her?
Yes I have asked this question before but I didn't really get much traction on my post so will post a summarized version below. I had gone to a meet and there was this girl who was being rude and kinda condescending but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I distance myself from this girl after being excluded from plans?
Basically was dealing with a really annoying person. I am surprised how people can even stand someone like that (they kept directing others telling them what to do etc.). Towards the end when I was paying for my bill,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my sister wrong for not inviting us to my brother‑in‑law’s birthday gathering?
Today is my brother in law`s birthday. Last Sunday when my sister stopped by the house to visit us, she received a phone call from my brother in law daughter (my brother in law has kids from his first marriage and they...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Should I cut off a man who relies on me emotionally but won’t commit?
I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together. He’s stayed in touch with me on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did this guy ditch our first date like that and should I feel embarrassed?
So I ended up going out with the guy I made a post about yesterday. This man has been begging me for a date so I decided to go. I canceled on him yesterday cause he was too last minute, when it came to the details. So i...
Anonymous
(25-29) Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
Should bald men be more normalized and romanticized in mainstream media?
I myself am guilty of making fun out of bald men time to time but only out of banter never being actively cruel. My husband is bald himself and shaved all his hair off during covid when he was 27/28 and has never gone...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Is it normal to expect expensive gifts while refusing commitment?
I have went on 6 dates with a girl over 3 weeks. on the 5th date she showed me pics of a ring and asked me to go to the mall where that store is since my workplace is near there. Next day i went, sent her pics, and she...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?
I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...
TimidKoi
Xper 1 Age: 17 