Did anyone else also stop kissing peoples asses when they got older (regardless if it is friends or family)?

Before I was a moron, and didn't respect myself. I was a good person and still am but dang but of how much of a wuss I was before. I hit up people more than once if they didn't respond back within hours, call them first , text them or call them first always despite knowing it should go both ways, etc. I eventually decided to stop cause I got tired of putting up with shit from people.

Did anyone else also stop kissing peoples asses when they got older (regardless if it is friends or family)?
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