Should I keep dating this guy?

[Anonymous]

We met in person April & I work overnight so that’s y we meet 3-4am. I live on opposite side of town from him one hour away and my job is bit closer to him 35min& there’s no traffic 3-6am to him.

we have Mostly long deep chats in my car. We didn't have sex first night we met just dry humping & making out.
he would call me daily4my lunch break at work that first week. But not anymore.

He invited me to a yatch with friends but I didn’t go. So wonder if that would been my first real date in public

he invited me to visit him for his lunch break at work but never let me go as excuse I’m too far an hour away & would been 2 hours driving , as it’s one hour again go to my job

we met at his house 2nd date when his parents weren’t home & he held my hand & gives me good bye kisses & made me a coffee.

3rd date we go to hotel & finally able have sex & watch tv , cuddle, we go to drive through together to get food & the lobby man & few other people sees us together. But if we stop by gas stations he makes me go alone to buy snacks & he waits in car FaceTimes me.

4th date we meet 9am & he went out to a casino with friends & I was hurt as I wanted go but I work night shift so either way I cudnt go. We mostly just chat in the car & can’t have sex in the car and he just goes with me to the market but refuses enter with me. He stays up without sleeping just to see me wen I’m off of work

5th date

we bicker cuz he refuses and lies about going to the beach with me. He says let’s go to Vegas or Cancun but nothing is planned it’s words and no action. we look at plane prices together & nothing more like wen we’ll go. He travels for vacay often and doesn’t go out for fun much, and likes to use his money on trips instead of like movie arcade places, doesn’t eat fast food and likes fancy food. His family travels for work too. this date we did go to a small cafe after I woke up from the nap at hotel.

now I can’t meet him next week for his bday As he’ll spend it with family.

[ManOnFire]

I'll be brutally straightforward: this sounds like a disgusting situationship. There's nothing real in it and he seems like a useless guy really. Definitely stop dating him, and next time around please for the love of God do not dry hump at first meeting or even fuck on the third date.

[Asker]

The thing is no guy says yes to date me and not have sex. So I’ll be single forever. No guy agrees be my boyfriend First. I met hundreds of guys and they all say no

[ManOnFire]

So basically you feel like you need to give it up in order to get them to date you. I am going to assume you must have a very physically attractive body (big boobs/curvy) because things like this are often the case with girls like that.

But you gotta stand your ground. If they can't date you for awhile without sex then they're not meant for you. When you give it up just to get them, you'll never really be happy with them anyway.

[Asker]

The thing is I met hundreds of guys and no guy wants date me without sex and agree meet family. Only guy that ever agreeed was a fat guy I didn’t like and he had my exs same face. My ex is not ugly but I hate that guy so much I can’t live forever waking up next to my husband with that guys same face so I never met that guy. He was only guy that wanted a meet me meet family he a real boyfriend

[Asker]

The issue is no guy wants to call me his girl meet family I never get to progress with a guy I’m stuck at the casual lame dates phase then family pastries bdays holidays appear and I have to go alone single and the guy I’m seeing isn’t going with me.

[Asker]

I get told my guys and girls I’m cute sweet pretty sweetheart but I can’t get a boyfriend 😓😓😓

[ManOnFire]

The reason why the fat guy was the only one to agree was because he was probably a beta simp. He figured he could do passive dating with you and eventually he would get sex, and most likely once he got it he would move on.

That is why I say no guys are serious about you and want to skip to sex because physically you must be what men want and they just want to smash and move on. But I also don't know anything about your character or body language/how you present yourself. Maybe you're doing things that make guys feel like they don't exactly want to date you, I don't know. I can't say. I'm just saying there could be other factors.

[Asker]

So only ugly girls are desirable to men and seen as gfs? 😓

[Asker]

I get told I’m nice sweet , I’m quiet shy but I do talk and have deep talks to guys. That fat guy agreed meet family on second date he wanted marriage babies , he sent me videos of his nieces , he said I can play board games with his family , and that he was religious but his parents aren’t

[Asker]

What r things a girl can do that makes men not want date u?

[ManOnFire]

Some guys go with ugly women because they think she'll be more loyal. They think ugly girls don't get picked very often so they would be happy to finally get a guy. And those guys are stupid because they often have no idea just how slutty ugly girls can be. Seen it for years. Ugly girls get sex a lot.

Lmfao. He probably started jumping to marriage and kids because he thought you would finally be the girl he needed to end his singleness lol.

Girls do tons of things to discourage a guy from dating them: acting snobby, acting arrogant, always pretending to be on their phone, looking like shit. But acting snobby is probably the biggest. You don't have to worry though since you actually can have conversations with guys. Most girls don't do that.

[Gedough]

Do what you want to

[Danny_dan92]

Only do so if you want to

[Anonymous]

Why he not making plans come see you

[Asker]

Yes that’s weird.

[Asker]

I fought with him I said he don’t want date me cuz he don’t want his friends or other girl see us together 😓 he has friends that live near by in that city