I am dating a guy who was just posting on Instagram and Facebook, videos and photos, of him being coupled up with another girl just a month ago. Which I saw for myself because he and I started to communicate through social media. We were always friends on social media. I even remember seeing and watching the post but when he stopped posting and started messaging me I figured maybe they were never really together and he’s just dating around right now. So, I have agreed to date him but it’s weird because now he’s posting me just like he was posting her. Pictures and videos of me or he and I together doing random things, just like he did with her. He’s taking individual pictures and posting me and putting cute songs over them. Exactly like he did with the other girl and that’s what’s making me question am I making the wrong move by choosing to date this guy? He seems to move pretty fast and treat all women the same. As though we’re exposable. Also, I’ve been wondering what happened between him and the other girl.
Should I keep dating this guy?
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It's understandable that you have concerns about this guy's behavior, especially given the way he handled his previous relationship on social media. Moving on from one relationship to another very quickly and treating people similarly might be a red flag. Communication is key in such situations. You should consider having an open and honest conversation with him about your concerns and what you've observed on his social media. It's important to express your feelings and expectations to see if you both are on the same page. Additionally, you could inquire about what happened between him and the other girl to better understand his past relationships. Ultimately, the decision to continue dating him should be based on how comfortable and secure you feel in the relationship.