Search Results: what do guys like in a girl

This is a hypothetical question.

A girl that is 10/10 beautiful, and educated professional from a middle class family.

A guy this is reasonably good looking, tall, and in decent shape. Rich background, family setups, hard working/ambitious, educated professional and a good overall guy.

When my ex broke up with me she gave me so many reasons. I took those reasons as offensive and personal as they were and pleaded for her back when I should have seriously shut her up, like she literally uses instagram photos of when she was young and beautiful to attract guys. She was so insecure I had to show her my phone a few times that I wasn’t doing anything wrong. Not a stable person emotionally and just a very mixed up girl. I should have destroyed her completely.

She made it seem like I was the problem when she was basically 100% to blame for the failure of the relationship. She was literally like I didn’t gift her and provide for her

28 year old girl. Brother is divorced. Girl has been in a few relationships and had her heart broken twice. She was going to get married to a guy, weren’t engaged, parents had met but then she called it off. Then she went to Thailand for a month or so by herself.

Guy makes 2X girl but had only worked for 1 year and a bit. He comes from a very wealthy family. Girl has been working for 4 years, both are educated professionals.

Guy paid for first 5 dates then they did 50/50, they don’t go and do expensive things. Just normal dinners and coffee.
The girl is very beautiful.

So as a quick recap:

This girl I've been helping out has been acting kinda funny around my friends. She flirts with me and is very friendly but around the friend groups I try to include her in it's like she tries to play all sorts of weird games to sort of steal my social standing in the group.

Then she tried to manipulate me I told her it was a nice try but not very convincing.

But after all that I figured she probably spent a lot of time around some pretty shitty people. I always knew this process wouldn't exactly be easy.

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Were at a friend's place and she's telling me about her aunt who passed away and how she was upset she had to find out through Facebook.

Now she's talked about her aunt who she was close to before but when she started talking about this one, I thought it was two different aunts.

In my defense she's Hispanic. I thought you people have huge families. Anyway, she starts acting like an ass and we get into a bit of a spat and she blocks me.

It wasn't until a couple days after that it clicked with me that the dead aunt and the one she liked so much were the same.

Not that it undid that much shit she had done but fuck I messed up pretty bad 😂.

So ya basically I decided to put my foot down but only when she was freaking out over something legitimate and I didn't realize it because I misunderstood her telling me about a fresh and traumatic experience she was going through so from her point of view... I'm sure it wasn't a fun place to be.

Anyway I explained what happened to her and things have been peaceful. I'm still wondering if I'm gonna bring her out with my friends and family for the 4th of July.

What's the worst that could happen right

If a girl has been in 3-4 relationships and dated like another 4 guys for months at a time and is 28.

Is she more likely to not get married as she can’t bond with one guy?

My opinion is that it’s because young women are encouraged to prioritise themselves over everyone. Like to be a wife and a mother you need a degree of selflessness. Gen Z and below don’t have that.
Like girls will only look at a guy and be like what does he do for me and not vice versa.

Obviously not all women. They’ll always be good ones. But most.

I have no idea if this is a view the majority of women hold but I've seen women online who are super offended by the words female and girl.

Something about the word female being animal like and the word girl being used to describe children and as such it's dehumanizing when men use those words instead of just saying women.

I do realize the irony of asking if girl is offensive on a site literally called "girls ask guys."

As a man I don't believe I get to have an opinion on it but as long as it's nothing something like "men and females" or "men and girls" then I would guess it's not offensive. Say males and females or guys and girls or boys and girls. But not men and females or girls.