Should I feel regret for pleading for my ex?

[Anonymous]

When my ex broke up with me she gave me so many reasons. I took those reasons as offensive and personal as they were and pleaded for her back when I should have seriously shut her up, like she literally uses instagram photos of when she was young and beautiful to attract guys. She was so insecure I had to show her my phone a few times that I wasn’t doing anything wrong. Not a stable person emotionally and just a very mixed up girl. I should have destroyed her completely.

She made it seem like I was the problem when she was basically 100% to blame for the failure of the relationship. She was literally like I didn’t gift her and provide for her

There’s nothing to regret

Yeah you should’ve sorted her out

[slatyb]

Yes, you should have let her go. The only reason to pay attention to the reasons someone is leaving is to take a good look at yourself and think about ways to avoid having the next relationship end the same way. Even if she treated you badly, think about why you chose her, and why you stayed.

[Iron_Man]

Girls nowadays are very complicated. If you’re in love with her you have to fight for her. If not, is she worth it the trouble?

[Nikki1989]

This was boring the shit out of people 10 posts ago.

Get a life.

[HollyK21]

Agreed. This is actually quite obsessive and disturbing how he’ll go from fawning over how gorgeous she is and how badly he fucked up, to this full 180 of tearing down her character. Sick, weird shit. I hope she continues to ignore.

[Asker]

Nah because now I’m Coming to my senses now the attachment I have to her is going. Like fuck I allowed her to say shit to me at the end

[HollyK21]

You’re just a big old baby, dude, lashing out here every other day because she doesn’t want you anymore and you can’t stand being ignored and rejected. Too much coddling all your life so you feel entitled to her attention, and life doesn’t work like that. Work on growing up and being a decent man before your next relationship, because you are really showing your true character and it is not that of a good man, deserving of this gorgeous woman.

[HollyK21]

You should feel bad for posting this a billion times. Stop it.

[Abbycado]

How many accounts you going to ask this from? Ffs.

[Flower7]

Why were you with her if you didn’t think she was beautiful?

[Anonymous]

So she’s ugly? But you told me she is the most beautiful girl. What’s wrong with u

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should.

[Asker]

But equally leave her with her delusions and let her find out for herself

[imemma12]

Just did not work out so move on