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EveryDayIsPretzelDay
Xper 4 Age: 18 Why is talking about group stereotypes so often labeled sexist or racist?
For instance if someone ask a question about why some men rape, why do some men hurt women... there is always someone out there calling that person a sexist, claiming that women are equally violent too and can also be...
Is this the most common way we become disgusting creepy stalkers?
Traumatizing content ahead. I'm getting therapy. Very nauseating freudian stuff that i need to vent and growl about until my nervous system is in less pain. Here is how i became one. It all on the surface looks like...
There_Is_Rehab
Xper 1 Age: 22 
RyanEC
Guru Age: 35 Is this workplace bullying or just a coworker keeping it professional?
I work in healthcare, and a coworker and I had a disagreement over communication related to patient care. She had previously told me she’d be at work before her first patient, but ended up running late. I told her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Will I stay a lonely virgin forever, and should I try casual sex or friends with benefits?
I’m still a 20-year-old virgin. All the guys who talk to me only seem to want hookups and not a serious relationship. When older men and women see me, they always ask, “Why are you single? You’re so beautiful” or “You’re...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do the same 4 girls keep attacking anonymous questions here?
4 of them are probably from the US. Every question, I see them and they are always attacking and mocking. They are so annoying. Even though I blocked them I still see them on even my questions because I like to ask...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I cope as a Christian fearing my online friend has died?
I am a Christian on the spectrum and I believe my online friend passed away. I haven’t heard from them for a while and they’ve been offline on all social medias. I’ve prayed to my lord and savior to just give me a sign...
liliaanabluee
Xper 1 Age: 25 Is it true that men are the self sabatogers of relationships? Do you feel men like the idea of a relationship but not the reality?
Medium magazine-"When men "like the idea of relationships but not the reality," it typically means they crave the benefits of companionship (like intimacy and validation) but are overwhelmed by the everyday efforts...
Smileygirl2000
Xper 2 Age: 26 What does "the guy who likes to watch" actually want from a woman?
I tell a guy I love to dance and he starts to whine about how his dancing days are over. I ask "really"? and start teasing him about it bc he's physically fit and very sporty, so this seems odd. I tell him that it's too...
How come online I see a lot of stuff trending about women no longer wearing bras or shaving their legs but in real life I never really see it?
So since COVID which by this point has been half a decade ago I've been constantly seeing stuff online about women no longer wearing bras or shaving their legs but in real life I've never really seen it. The one and only...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is the idea that leftists don’t own or use guns actually accurate?
Pretty sure there are plenty of leftists or left-aligned radicals who own, use, or have used guns. Just look at cases like Tyler Robinson, Micah Xavier Johnson, James Hodgkinson, Willem van Spronsen, Michael Reinoehl,...
SolitarySolace
Yoda Age: 29 Ladies, does a woman calling me “dude” mean I’m friendzoned or not?
Description is a bit long so here we go…. I have a crush for my coworker. The other day she jokingly told me that it would be funny for me to go bowling with just my dominant hand and I laughed it off cause she didn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I end this story?
Olivia has a one night stand with a random stranger after getting drunk at a bar with him. 2 months later, she is a new hire at a publishing company. The guy turns out to be her new boss named Max who just got back...
Can I find someone’s Instagram from a restaurant receipt name and employee ID?
I was at a restaurant today and the cutest guy was working and helping. He flirted a bit but never gave me his info or name. I asked for no receipt but he still gave me one. All that is on there is his employee id and...
Anonymous
(18-24) What's a trigger word for you?
Sometimes, when I said or showed something to him, he would reply with "Interesting" and I'd ask what's interesting about it and he'd ignore the question or give me an i don't know it's just interesting as a response.
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I ask a girl about a past relationship without invading her privacy?
well i know that she dated this guy in the past or they knew each other and spent some time together. but not sure who he is to her and not sure if he's still in her life or not , i've talked to her a lot at her work but...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I mistaking a natural flirt’s behavior for genuine interest?
For my job, the people I work with switch from shift to shift. Sometimes I meet new coworkers, other times I reunite with familiar ones. There’s this coworker (32M) I’ve become more familiar with in the past couple of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did my incarcerated friend make me his girlfriend without asking?
Long story short, I (40/f) have a male friend (35) who is currently doing a little bit of time behind bars. He’s ex military and had some issues after he got out. When we met, I was currently in a very bad relationship...
Anonymous
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