Search Results: changing my ways
How do I change my view on men?
I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...
Why did I start laughing at this guy’s intense blank stare and coughing?
There is a guy who keeps giving me these long, serious, blank stares. Sometimes he'll stare at me for what feels like 20 seconds straight without changing his expression. His stare is so intense and emotionless that it...
Friendship not reciprocated, is it me?
Quick facts about me... Currently in 18 year toxic relationship, turned 40 this year, male, never had real friends all my life due to shyness and anxiety. I feel I jumped into my relationship to fast for the sake of...
What do you think is the scariest way to die?
I have seen on the news recently that bear attacks on humans are increasing in Japan. I think they said it had something to do with climate change. Getting attacked by a bear seems like a pretty scary way to die.
I talked behind my ex-friend’s back and she slapped me—how do I apologize now?
I made a huge mistake and don't know how to deal with it. I took karate for 5 years and Im goinginto junior year at University. I had a bestie (sort of) at the beginning college. As time went on, tbh, jealousy started...
Is wearing makeup actually making some women look less attractive?
I stopped wearing makeup about 5 weeks ago due to getting conjunctivitis for 2 weeks. In them two weeks my eyelashes started growing more healthy and turning back blonde. My skin became clearer and my freckles...
Manager sabotaging my medical appointments: ADA or short-term disability?
My manager is an insufferable racist sexist idiot. HR and his supervisor enables him. I have long term dental care plan I need to pay for. So far I’m paying $1800. My company doesn’t pay well so I have to save almost half...
Are you actually happy or just comfortable enough with your life that you’ve stopped questioning whether it really is?
I’m curious, what does happiness actually mean to you? What in your life genuinely makes you feel that way? And honestly, do you think the life you’re living right now is a happy one or just something that feels...
How have old friends changed when you reconnected after years apart?
Just saw a high school friend yesterday. It has only been a couple of years but things just seemed different between us. Not in a bad way. Share your experiences, good or bad.
What’s something about yourself that quietly makes you feel ‘not enough’ and why does it still hold that much power over you?
Everyone carries something they’re not fully comfortable with, sometimes visible, sometimes only they notice. It could be your appearance, the way you speak, your personality, your past, or even where you are in life....
Do people truly want to be understood, or are they searching for someone who understands the parts of themselves they can’t fully explain?
I think about this sometimes because so many people say, “No one understands me,” yet very few stop to ask what being understood would actually change emotionally for them if it finally happened? Because if we’re...
How should I handle serious mechanical issues on a car I borrowed from my parents?
a while back i borrowed a used car from my parents , they had it for a while and weren't using it much and i needed a way to get to work in another nearby town. it was a 2015 and has had some repairs over the years but...
Should all elected officials have strict term and age limits?
The way I see it there should be term limits. And additionally as long as there is a deficit, congress should be barred from giving them selves raises. There is no excuse for senators and representatives to have been...
Do you agree most people who picked on others when they were kids don't ever change?
Most don't. Most don't feel bad for what they did ever and are assholes in some way for the rest of their life.
What would your choice be, change your past, or leave it as it is?
Many people say, “I wish I could turn back time.” But have you ever considered that what we once call the worst moments in our past might actually be the very things that shaped who we are today? If those things...
friends with benefits acting like more than friends for a year—what does it mean?
I’ve known this guy for years almost a decade In the past, everything was straightforward we would catch up, hook up, and then go our separate ways. Recently, his behavior changed. He’s more affectionate, stays over...
Do you consider yourself attractive? If yes, what part of you stands out the most? and what does “being attractive” actually mean to you?
I feel like at first, people often think of attractiveness as just looks, but the more you get to know someone, things like their personality, energy, mindset, and how they treat others can completely change how you see...
Is it normal to see my dad’s parenting as outdated and feel misled?
The more I keep hearing my father's views about parenting the more ridiculous they sound for my nearly 1 year-old son. His views used to be at its highest all the way till the 90's; then it started declining and now it's...
Are people supposed to be happy? How happy are you?
I was watching this video, and that level of happiness, honestly, it's sweet and that but I think it's overbearing. I watched some of the video and thought, 'hmm, this is a third world shithole'. But it got me thinking,...
Do I deserve to be treated like this for basically being an idiot?
I don't know if im even being treated in such a way that I should feel how I do. I have autism. I've always been a slow learner and had a short attention span. I started working in fast food about 2 months ago. I've...
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