Do you consider yourself attractive? If yes, what part of you stands out the most? and what does “being attractive” actually mean to you?

[Anonymous]

I feel like at first, people often think of attractiveness as just looks, but the more you get to know someone, things like their personality, energy, mindset, and how they treat others can completely change how you see them.

Sometimes, someone becomes more attractive over time and sometimes the opposite happens.

So I’m curious, what really makes someone attractive in your eyes? Is it their looks, their personality, how they carry themselves, or even their life direction?



# For me, looks might catch attention, but what really stays is how someone carries themselves, their calmness, their values, the way they think, and how they treat people when no one is watching.

I’m more drawn to people who feel genuine and grounded rather than those who try too hard to impress.

[thegreenyogi]

For many years I considered myself to be unattractive and it was a protection others that were particularly unkind placed onto me. As I grew I stepped outside of the box and the consideration I had of myself got better, I built confidence and I started to be able to embrace my true colours. Attractiveness for me is when you are able to be yourself and face life in general with this idea that you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Basically standing in your own power and shining your own light and that is what others see and consequently that is why you are redeemed to be attractive or otherwise.

[Still-alive]

Moving words. I resonate with this

[thegreenyogi]

Awww!! Thank you!!🙃

[thegreenyogi]

I'm glad you resonate with this too..

[ammar12343]

I’ve gotten positive feedback most of my life. Somebody the other day told me I’m conventionally attractive, but in the most basic way lmao. I guess I’ll take it. I was at my peak around 22-26ish. I was fresh out of the military. I was bodybuilding and using steroids so I guess that makes sense. I was absolutely killing it though. What’s wild is I’m actually more confident today. These days I don’t really put nearly as much time in the gym. Priorities shift. I prefer endurance sports these days. Been I’ve working 80-85 a week for the last month or so lately so I’m looking fatigued sort of hobo like lol. Beard needs a trim. But you gotta do what you gotta do. If somebody doesn’t like the way I look, then don’t look at me lol. That’s the point I’m at in my life.

[ohsheeT]

I'm going to to say that is in the eyes of the beholder I like myself I love myself I don't flaunt myself

I would be too embarrassed to do that because I'm just not that type of person even though I have it in me I am confident but yeah I like myself and I think I'm good looking but that's in the eyes of the beholder and I'm just going to be me no matter what anybody says

[queenofcardio]

I think my personality is more attractive than my physical appearance. I'm very easy-going, and I have many interests and hobbies. I have an odd sense of humor that's attractive to some people, but it can deter those who don't understand it. The first thing I notice is how someone looks physically, but I'm instantly attracted to people with similar hobbies. It means we can connect on a deeper level.

[MrOracle]

Physically attractive? No.3/10 on a good day.

All of my attractiveness comes from personality, intelligence, wisdom, and morals, which requires someone getting to know me over time.

[ChiTown33]

My momma always told me I was handsome.😂

I wish I knew what attracted me to certain women. Kindness probably tops the list. When I see a woman helping someone she has absolutely nothing to gain by doing so is a big turn on. As I've gotten older shared life views have become important. We don't have to think absolutely alike (that might even be bad) but we should have similar drives in life and views. Faith is important to me as well. If she does not share my faith it's not going to work.

[NathanDavis]

others consider me attractive...

I just see, my... self, from a neutral point of view

I do know, though... the few or many things that others might see attractive about me, or not and I know it tends to be different many times as well

to me... attraction is as simple as just wanting to connect with someone, in any way that's fun and positive for both, interesting or intriguing as well

[Nikki1989]

People tell me that, but I don't get it. However, I don't spend much time dwelling on it either.

[sage2021]

I guess I would have to say yes based on what people tell me.
I think that most people like my smile. I'm always smiling.🙂

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 I will agree with that too

[sage2021]

@Kelly6

Thank you Kelly! 🙂

[exitseven]

I m pretty average looking on good day. I guess my feet are my bet feature, Too bad I usaully were shoes.

[ABitShattered]

I consider myself attractive. Eyes, personality, mind, other things about me. To me, being attractive is as much about who you are and how you carry yourself as it is about looks.

[Anonymous]

I know that I am not attractive.

But I have a theory, I am attractive enough to be a friend or one of the people who are close to you but never the one who is loved.

I have been a candle, useful until the darkness is there

[Kelly6]

@MontBlanc yes, mostly my 34F boobs are main parts

[Kelly6]

@MontBlanc
For me attractive means if I pull more guys attention in public

[Alex-Snow]

I do. I have been told I am good looking and a fun and honest person be be with. So far so good.

[msc545]

Relative to my appearance. No, not at all. Relative to my intellect probably, although most people do not like people who are smarter than they are.

[Anonymous]

Me? no

About others, intelligence

[Anonymous]

I don't really.

[Zionne]

yes, i think my eyes

[eagle1951]

heck no