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Search Results: getting over a first love
I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?
In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you ever get annoyed by people not paying attention to anything in public?
I'm at Costco the other day and pushing the kart when all of a sudden I hit this traffic jam. Why is there a traffic jam? Because some asshole decided to put a salsa tasting station inbetween the lambchops and where the...
Hooked up with my toxic ex on a trip after years apart—how do I face him now?
I dated my ex about 10 years ago when they we were 18. It was my first love, but the relationship turned toxic quite quickly. He was disrespectful, flirted with other girls, nearly cheated, and mostly only seemed...
Anonymous
(25-29) Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
Is my neighbour’s grand romantic gesture sweet or just creepy stalking?
I moved into my new apartment 3 months ago and I started using the communal gym. There was two guys also in there and one kept giving me the eye. I found it really awkward and uncomfortable so I said "can I help you...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should bald men be more normalized and romanticized in mainstream media?
I myself am guilty of making fun out of bald men time to time but only out of banter never being actively cruel. My husband is bald himself and shaved all his hair off during covid when he was 27/28 and has never gone...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Is our species violent by nature?
I can think of several examples I've seen where it's not self-defense and there were several ways things would've been solved but many people keep resorting to violence (primitive instinct) as an impulsive and first...
Have you ever felt disappointed because of what became of someone you loved?
I do feel that way now. There was a girl i was in love with like with anyone else before. When we were getting to know each other, she seemed so sweet and innocent and she liked me right away and i found her attractive as...
Anonymous
(25-29) I realised I couldn’t fall in love anymore since I’m more likely to crush on fictional characters because of my big break up is it normal?
My first break up traumatised and I’m now crushing on fictional men around my age. I know they aren’t real but it’s way safer than getting my heart broken all over again.
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this weird or am I getting my panties in a bunch?
So, five days before I arrived to class, I was on the phone with my boyfriend. We said “I love you” to each other and hung up around 8. Then around 10, I found out my boyfriend had unfollowed me on Instagram. I know it...
Anonymous
(18-24) On your last year of high school, how paranoid were you when it came to choosing colleges?
I'm in my last year of high school and I'm super paranoid. I'm obsessively on internet, looking for colleges and universities which cater to my very specific needs. And when I sit alone then I randomly become very sad...
Apulu_backagain
Xper 7 Age: 17 Memories: My Freshman Year Of College Experience
Schools are starting back up again, and having watched all these "move in day" vlogs with my cousin who is now on her way, it brought back all the great (and not so great) memories of my freshman year. Just wanted to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Isn’t it crazy how time helps you to get over someone you once were so crazy over?
About 9 years ago I was with my first boyfriend and I swore I was so in love. I thought we would get married, have kids and run off into the sunset 🤣. He ended up leaving me for another girl and it hurt so bad. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Fix myself or find another man first?
I know what the attitudes are towards single women my age. Please try to keep this nice. I don’t open up to people that easily so this really hurts. I recently got dumped and he was straight with me about everything that...
silvermoon84
Yoda Age: 42 Learning not to get too emotionally attached
Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....
After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.
Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) I Tried Going Back to Vinyl
I'm old enough to have had an actual record player in my house when I was a kid. We weren't allowed to touch it, but it was there, sitting in the corner, but even then, rarely if ever used. I grew up on cassettes and CDs,...
Anonymous
(36-45) I don’t like my boyfriend’s behavior. After getting to know him I realized we’re so incompatibility too. Please help me, what to do?
My boyfriend wants me to apologize over mostly everything, which I find incredibly stupid. If I rise my voice, defend myself, (Verbally, which I shouldn’t, because apparently to him he’s the one who’s always right, and I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I ask her out again?
So I asked a friend of two years out back in October of last year, she said she didn't intend to flirt and was in a talking stage with another guy that she wanted to pursue things with and that she hoped I wasn't upset. I...
Anonymous
(18-24) After a Relationship Ends: I Miss You Even Though I Don't Love You
Breaking up is not an easy thing. Sometimes the most complicated feelings come not at the moment the relationship ends, but much later. Missing someone even though you know you don't love them anymore... Isn't this a...
Anonymous
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