Search Results: how to get him to stay

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Is this a good message to send to my ex?

She broke up with me for many reasons. Main reason I think is I didn’t make her feel special enough, she worried it could get messy. This girl was such a rare fine and too beautiful. I just can’t 😭. when we broke up I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

She broke up with me for many reasons. Main reason I think is I didn’t make her feel special enough, she worried it could get messy. This girl was such a rare fine and too beautiful. I

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Why does my ex brag about being blocked and seem to enjoy it?

i blocked this one guy i dated because he wasn’t honest , years later i unblocked because i didn’t care anymore. he came back and just was awful so i blocked him again , it’s like everytime he gets unblocked he wants to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

3 d

Can guys be friends with girls?

Is it true that guys never want to be friends with girls? I feel like I get along better with guys so I hang out and talk with guys more. Does that mean that there is something going on between us absolutely not I just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

3 d

Would you rather stay long-term partners than get legally married?

what if you have lots of money and dont want to sign it over to someone else.

robocop666

Guru Age: 38

Other

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Ladies, how do you view a man with deep emotional intelligence?

Emotional intelligent is someone who can ability to understand their own emotions, stay regulated, read others accurately, and build connections without fears or controls. People on earned secure attachment style who...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

5 d

How do you push yourself to go out when you feel super lazy?

I can get very lazy and to feel like doing anything or going anywhere. It's one of those night that I am supposed to go to a meet up club I belong to where you can bring food. I'm considering whether I should just stay...

Amy10223

Yoda Age: 69

Marriage & Weddings

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Am I rushing into marriage plans after 11 months of dating?

Me (27F) and my boyfriend (23M) have been dating for 11 months. He’s been over my house weeks on end Monday- Sunday until recently I told him he can stay only on weekends. I feel like within those months I’ve been...

avony12

Xper 7 Age: 27

8 d

Did my incarcerated friend make me his girlfriend without asking?

Long story short, I (40/f) have a male friend (35) who is currently doing a little bit of time behind bars. He’s ex military and had some issues after he got out. When we met, I was currently in a very bad relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

10 d

Should I wait for my boyfriend to figure things out or move on?

So my boyfriend is in dilemma lately. He told me let's take space for now , because he is stressed of getting a job asap and taking responsibility, so he told me that let's stay friends with less contact for now and if he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

10 d

Could the Iran war resume soon, and what events might trigger it?

Though calling it a "deal" helps Trump for the midterms and gives Iran a propaganda victory. It's only an agreement to speak, a ceasefire extension, and to open the hormuz. That being said, the optics are terrible for the...

FrodoSkywalker007

Xper 6 Age: 25

11 d

Should I stay in this controlling relationship or finally leave?

Been dating a girl for 8 months around Jan. things started to go south. I'm just gonna get to it please read this list. As a side note I did meet this great girl at a community event and I really like her. I been debating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

11 d

Where did the single-breadwinner, stay-at-home wife myth actually originate?

This was never the case in American history and certainly not word history. In American history men held 12-hours-per day jobs and worked 6 or usually 7 days per week, AND the women had jobs too. If you check the Book of...

SeekerOfTruth007

Xper 7 Age: 45

Other

11 d

What's go-to phrase explains your personality?

I've been called "a tough cookie" very often and my answer is always to chuckle and say, "Sure, but even tough cookies are sweet. We just need a good strong coffee to compliment us." (As an aside, I started saying this bc...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

12 d

Why has no man ever fallen in love with me, and am I unlovable?

I feel like I’m not good enough.. once a guy gets to know me I’m not enough for him to stay… I also don’t feel attractive I think about getting into onlyfans or something to feel good about myself

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

12 d

Can this relationship with my alcoholic, abusive boyfriend be saved without breaking up?

I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 22. We’ve been together for a year and living together for five months. The same day we moved in together, he got fired and was unemployed for three months, so I had to support both of us. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

12 d

Why do I let him walk all over me?

i’ve let him cheat on me, call me horrible names, choose when he feels like talking to me, ignore me for 2 weeks at a time, break up with me then come back when he’s bored, he speaks to other girls a lot, he obsesses over...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Sports

14 d

For real self-defense, is a mixed combat system better than single arts?

Michael Calandra, 10th Dan karate and Japanese Ju Jitsu instructor, basically said for Self Defense, you need a combat system which combines the best of striking, joint locks, throws and other takedowns, as well as ground...

SeekerOfTruth007

Xper 7 Age: 45

14 d

Do you believe?

Do you believe that marriage is an institution recognizing the sacred union between one man and one woman? Do you believe that men and women are biologically different? Do you believe that mass immigration is a threat to...

Dargil

Master Age: 36