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I happen to take this matter personally because of what happened to me.

When I was 20, I met this 16 year old girl online on an adult dating app. We really hit it off, and we began conversing for a series of months. We both researched the age of consent in her state, and found that it was 16. I drove to meet her, and we had a date. Things got intense later, and we ended up having sex. It ended up only being a weekend fling because she didn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with me. I was heartbroken. We had a dispute weeks later, and she never wanted to speak to me again.

7 months later while at my college dorm, I made an idiotic decision to drive back to her state to apologize and win her heart again. I was met at the door by her father, who was unhappy to see me to say the least. I shook his hand and agreed to cut complete contact. As I went back to my hotel, the police knocked on my door and arrested me. Fast forwarding, I was sentenced to 3 years supervised probation. The collateral damages were just as bad if not worse, as I lost my EMT license and my career.

The reason why I bring this up is because if this were to happen to someone who was elite, had money, or had high influential status, they would have likely just received a slap on the wrist or not have been touched at all by the law.

Instead, an average everyday person, let alone a young 20/21 year old trying to pursue love at that time, had his entire reputation and livelihood destroyed.

These elitist bastards flew 14 year old girls on an island, passed them around as casual sex dolls, and they get away with it completely unscathed. It's sick.

Now that I am 31 and married, I look back in hindsight with regret and sadness I became so desperate. I was young and dumb. But I am even more angry at the devastation it caused for so many years when, meanwhile, elitists just continue to thrive and get away with high-profile crimes.

Hi, I met this girl back in may 2023, a distance relationship, and we broke up recently. To be shorter I’m gonna say that she used to love me more than I loved her, we both put effort but she always put more, she used to be so excited about me, but recently we broke up because her feelings towards me changed, she isn’t excited about me anymore, and in her heart she doesn’t feel anything about me, she doesn’t feel the way she used to. I made my mistakes and we’ve been through up and downs, but I always gave her love and care. Throughout our relationship I matured and changed, I became a better person and learnt to give her all the love and care she deserved, even before the break up, but it was already too late. She said that there might be even the slightest chance that I can make her fall in love, win her heart again, get her back to me, and despite everything I never lost my hope and I’ll keep working hard for her, because I know that I’m a better man now and I deserve a new chance, even she said that I can have it, so what would you suggest me to do? What should I do to make her fall in love again? I’m in such a pain that I can’t explain by words, I want her back because I really can’t live without her, she was and she is my everything, and knowing that I actually have a chance relieves me but I need help pls, what should I do to get her back?