How to win the heart of a woman who still is not over her ex?

[Anonymous]

I know she likes me cuz she already showed interest when she was still married but she never did anything to cheat on her husband. I saw her struggling with her feelings for me. Now she is single, so I guess her feelings came natural because her relationship wasn't going well back then. Now she still shows signs of interest, I catch her gazing at me, she blushes all over her face when I smile at her, we get along very well and she rrecently asked me out. Still I know she still has feelings for her ex who cheated on her.

[JakeS00]

Being yourself... but why bother with someone still not over an ex? That's usually a problem waiting to happen as they won't be out of the rebounding stage. Find someone who is not with an ex or is single.

[Asker]

I know, but right now I'm in too deep.

[JakeS00]

Right. However, it's not too late either.

[kylee2437]

Why go for someone that’s stuck on her ex? You can try to win her over, but say her and her ex make up, you are going to get screwed over regardless if you are a better pick or not. You should invest time in someone that’s ready for a fresh start

[Asker]

Thanks, good advice but the heart wants what the heart wants, I guess.

[kylee2437]

@asker I totally understand, been there before, but sometimes you need to put logic over your heart. You are going to damage yourself by listening to your heart instead of listening to common sense

[Asker]

I know... what did you do?

[kylee2437]

@asker I decided my worth and my time is more valuable than focusing on someone that needs time to grieve and heal

[Asker]

I know I should do the same...

[kylee2437]

@asker yes you should! You deserve someone that is ready for you

[Asker]

Thanks, very true!

[Anonymous]

I guess be her friend and don't push too much. It might be she goes back to her ex and you don't want to be a rebound.

[In_Trance]

you're wasting your time. there's 3.5 BILLION women on this planet. Pick someone free and clear

[Beerluvr]

You don’t. Stay away. Nothing but baggage there

[ChrisMike1919]

Just be there. And have patience.

[Asker]

Thanks, I will try how difficult it might be.

[ChrisMike1919]

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