Help me please?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I broke up. I ended it. He was focused on his basketball team, I was his cheerleader on the side. I loved him wth all my heart.. we were a little sexually active.

He sometimes was rude and my friends said he treated me like crap. The pressure my friends put on me caused me to pop and I broke up with him.

I want him back but I know he won’t get back with me. I told him I still want to be his favourite girl but he's occupied. I keep on texting him waiting for him to answer the next day. I really need him back. Can I ask how to win a Boyfriend/ girlfriend back? And what should I do,

[Anonymous]

You live and you learn.

You and you alone are responsible for the choices that you make, you are the one who has to live with them and this is why you do not let other people make choices for you.

You need to pay attention to the extremely unhealthy language you are using, for example quote : I really need him back. You do not NEED anyone, there is a huge difference between want and need and it is important that you learn the difference.

I get it though, you are young and all of this seems really important and there are all of these feelings that you can't cope with but you need to calm down, you are just bouncing from one thing to another.

You will find that whatever you do in life there is already a saying to cover it because (and here is an example) 'there is nothing new under the sun'.

'You have made your bed and now you must lie in it'

I promise the pain you are feeling will go away and you will love again, I know it's hard and you can't see past the end of the nose on your face right now because this experience is engulfing you but literally everyone has been through this, the exact details will be different but the feelings are the same.

Use this as a learning experience, learn to take responsibility for your actions, learn to manage and keep control of your feelings so that you can make choices with your mind instead of your impluses and learn to appreciate 'what you have before its gone' and learn to always move forwards in your life because 'the world never stops turning'.

[Avatar74]

Its best to move on in my opinion, if he treated you bad he obviously doesn't love you.

You should find a guy who will love and respect you, do not undermine your self respect by pursuing someone who has no feelings for you.

It probably will not be easy but I think you will forget about him and meet someone else who is more deserving if your affection

[Asker]

Yes I know it won’t be easy, I have liked this boy for 2 years and we dated for nearly 3 months, we were happy but everyone kept on bugging me about breaking up with him. He understands and apologised for his actions just now. We both wished eachother good health and we are still good friends.. j hope I find someone better

[Avatar74]

Be patient, you will find someone and you will be happy.

I hope everything works out well for you.

[Carolus]

Learn to make hard decisions and stick with ‘em, don’t look back, move on. It might seem hard for now but it gets better with time. He’s shown lack of interest or treats you the way he does because he wants you to read the signs and walk away, you have done good, don’t show desperation, it’s a weakness for failure.

[nawtee_me]

move on, it wasn't right for you or you would not have listened to your friends to start with. They saw him as he is and love had blinded you. You will get over him so move on the someone who really cares for you...

[Asker]

The thing is that my friends hated him from way before we were even together. And his best friend just said that he was protective over me and he was rlly only rude to my friends cause they were being rude to him so honestly I don’t even know. Maybe I will move on though..

[athelete_7]

In long run how a person treats u matters more than his looks.

[Asker]

Idc about his looks.

[athelete_7]

👀 by the way u describe him it seems like he doeant treat u right. Idc u like him. If he s treating u bad he ll treat u worse or equally i future the right one won't ever do that.

[athelete_7]

👀 by the way u describe him it seems like he doesn't treat u right. Idc u like him. If he s treating u bad he ll treat u worse or equally in future the right one won't ever do that.

[Stevefiveo]

He already showed you how he feels about by not talking to you. Take the hint and let it be. You're a cheerleader, you can find a new boyfriend easily.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t mean to be insensitive or anything but you can’t expect for things like this to be serious. Well, mistakes help I guess. Carry on, just take care

[dean53AU]

Plenty of other guys out there that will treat you better than he did.

[Shamalien]

Don’t break up with a guy just cause ur friends think u shud