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Search Results: lack of confidence fear
Can jealousy be gone forever?
Please forgive me, I asked something about jealousy before, but this is not the same but similar. If you have struggled with being jealous before of your partner, but you promised to deal with it, take the blame for it,...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 What is it like to be a loser?
Sometimes, being a loser isn't even what you'd think. I've had opportunities galore in different aspects of life. However, fear kept me from doing what I honestly really wanted to. Now I'm here at 28 with regret and pain....
Grimraed
Xper 4 Age: 30 Why do I tend to develop a romantic attraction to people I barely know?
Though I haven't really experienced romantic attraction in years and it was rare when it happened, almost exclusively as a teenager, I've noticed that it was always a guy I barely knew who I had a few brief but pleasant...
Anonymous
(30-35) Women, here are red flags in a man from a mans point of view
Trigger Warning: If you've had a bad relationship before that was so bad it caused PTSD than perhaps you shouldn't read this and should just turn around now. I give you permission to pretend you read it and leave a...
NathanOlipop
Xper 2 Age: 36 She texts, makes phone calls daily... but is super nervous about setting up a coffee date after second week of talking. Why it's a relationship killer.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/_X6YXS8UB1M This My Take is written specifically in regards to people who connect online. This has nothing to do a people that you know in real life or had previous relationship with. I want...
What could be the cause for my social anxiety, and how could I overcome?
This happens to me, from time to time. Sometimes I feel quite confident about myself. On those days: I am 100% OK with the way I look I feel like a good member of the given community (say, in the office, coffee machine...
Dana223
Xper 5 Age: 31 My Views on Boss Ass BAE/B*tches and Modern Day Relationships.
I have been wanting to do a MyTake on this after seeing questions posted by a few users on here. I left links down below to highlight the questions behind the inspiration for the MyTake so you can see my opinions and are...
ShadezMcgee
Guru Age: 33 Do you have a Personality Disorder?
Armchair diagnosing is fun, and don’t take it too seriously. But it’s good to know what symptoms you may have. Doesn’t mean you have these. Most people have some of each. Paranoid Personality: 1) distrust in everyone...
OddBeMe
Master Age: 42 Masks: The good, the bad, and the ugly.
I know that 'masks' seems like a dirty word after over 2 years of being locked down by a pandemic, but I promise that this MyTake isn't going to be talking about the N95 kind of masks, not entirely anyway, so those...
Ez-Bri-Z
Editor Age: 46 He/she doesn't respond to texts right away. Is this relationship doomed?
I have a smartphone (soon to be replaced with a S21 5G.) I use WhatsApp and Skype. I send text messages almost every day. So, I'm not really a total dinosaur! But I don't send many text messages to my girlfriend. That's...
u Does not taking action necessarily mean not interest?
I always see advice such as if people are not actually interested in you, you will be confused because of mixed signals and the lack of initiation. when I was younger, I had a crush on a guy for a few years but I did...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Experience Struggling with Depression, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, and Never Being "Good Enough"
This is just me getting my personal thoughts out of the way. For a very long time now, I've felt depressed about my physical appearance and the way I looked. I had something called Precocious Puberty, to where for some...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Why do hispanic and Asian girls keep pursuing me? What do they consider attractive in a man? Is it normal that I feel very distrusting of white girls?
I don’t know what it is but they seem to like spending their time with me and they always keep coming back. Whereas I get virtually no interest from white girls. And people always say that foreign women just want...
White_Boy_506
Xper 5 Age: 26 How keep low confidence from killing my relationships?
I feel my lack of confidence killed me last relationship. Not necessarily confidence in myself about being a great person, but more so in some of my abilities I guess. Basically my last girlfriend left me because I wasn't...
Rocknerd2
Xper 5 Age: 37 I want to have a baby but I’m scared to take that step and become pregnant?
Me and my fiancé always said that we would start with kids in the summer of 21. he's really looking forward to it but I’m afraid to become pregnant. And we have to do it now or in 2yrs because we will get married in 2023...
Anonymous
(30-35) There's this older guy who seems to want an affair with me. What are good strategies to avoid awkwardness?
He's a coworker and quite popular. Maybe he's very used to this because he did seem very keen on me and still does, and even though he's often quite nervous when I'm around, he's been quite straight forward after all. So...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Religion is Not for Intelligent, Logical, People.
Pretty simple. There are thousands of religions, and many philosophical explanations for who we are and why we are here. Some are similar, others diametrically opposed. One thing they have in common is none of them are...
This what a 25 year old virgin (me) looks like?
It’s not a question as such but more of a thread. This is what my 25 year old self looks like, still a virgin, never dated and lack confidence when it comes to girls, always did due to social anxiety and bullying I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Advice on how to say to a close friend I like as more than friends?
I have asked advice on here and with friends and I am quite certain the woman in question likes me, we have not been intimate or kissed but in short, the last two times we were together we had drinks and I ended up...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Lightbulb's Guide to a Renewed Social Contract and Better Human Relations for All
Time has come for a renewed social contract and changes are required on all sides. This contract spans cultures...it isn't just one race/culture, but it is identified and championed by the group most impacted ...black...
