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I was in an intense relationship that lasted 4 months. Ending up meeting parents. I am crazy about this girl. She broke up with me, we broke up amicably. Then I rang her to try again and convince her that we should be together and she was very dismissive and low key insulting me saying I didn’t make her feel special, didn’t gift her (when I did), I kept saying sorry and that I can do more despite really doing enough. Then I told her not to contact me and removed her off of Instagram.

Anyway. Broke up. It’s been almost 2 months and I reached out just saying hi how are things. No like emotional essays or anything like that. I never begged her.

Is there anything wrong with that? She might not reply. I guess I wanted to see if there was any hope. If she doesn’t reply well at least there’s additional closure but I guess I will feel sad like I left with my pride.
But then again, is pride all that? Does it matter, losing some pride for a girl you like and then disappearing?

I want a girl that likes me for me. So I pay for the first 5 dates then split 50/50. In my case with my ex, we setup a joint bank account and put equal money inside. She agreed to this.

Then when we were about to breakup suddenly, you didn’t make me feel special. She knew I’m not looking for a gold digger and a girl that likes me for me. Especially as she knew about my background before meeting me!!

I make double her, and come from a wealthy background. I do go after pretty girls and she did say she’s used to being provided for.

Is there anything wrong with what I did?

If she actually liked me she would stick it out right? Not to mention I was good to her, consistent and caring/sensitive!

I don’t. I think being Gen Z, living through social media and meeting and listening to women and how they really view and think about things has made me realised how shallow women really are.

I used to think women were all really nice as a kid but now I’m like they’re all bad. Even the girls that think they’re so good are mean and can judge hard etc.. most are fake nice.