Do you still believe in love?

[Anonymous]

I don’t. I think being Gen Z, living through social media and meeting and listening to women and how they really view and think about things has made me realised how shallow women really are.

I used to think women were all really nice as a kid but now I’m like they’re all bad. Even the girls that think they’re so good are mean and can judge hard etc.. most are fake nice.

I don’t believe in love

I do believe in love

This generation destroyed love

[Summeroflove]

Yes BUT….. many people believe in instant gratification they expect to be in a committed relationship in 3 or less dates and married in a year or less….. and relationships take time to develop not to the extreme of future faking but there is a balance they should develop naturally. Not stay stagnant too long or go too fast that also takes communication every relationship will develop at a different pace as well.

But many people get too wrapped up into narcissistic people because these people can pretend to be anyone they think you want them to be, tell you what you want to hear, and eventually it becomes hard to hide especially once you get married. So you see the real them. Other times two people can be decent humans but they aren’t compatible and try to make one anther conform and it never ends well.

Not all women are good and not all women are bad. Not all men are good not all are bad….. But looks can be deceptive because physical looks is just the effort someone puts into their appearance. That’s why some people go from being attractive to ugly and can bounce back and fourth….. Many people are too obsessed on looks and status to ever make a real connection with someone long term.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's really not hard to believe in love, when you're in the right context.

25-29yo wasn't my favorite time period for love though lol, it was much better during 16-20yo and 35-45yo

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I believe in it. I also learned that love is often not enough, it needs strong compatibility, same life goals and alignment.

[emeraldsaphire]

I'm married to a man I love <3 so I'd say so. Granted I'm not Gen Z so take that with a pinch of salt lol

[queenofcardio]

Yes, I still believe in love. You shouldn't project your bad experiences and say all women are bad. A few bad seeds don't make the whole apple.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

That's the tough part, I had so many unproductive conversations about projection before, some people can be really isolated from how vast the world is. And there's nothing to do.

[queenofcardio]

@Maybe_Maybe_not Exactly. That's why I usually don't bother

[Anonymous]

I believe in familial love. I believe in God's love. I think romantic love exists, but it's exceedingly rare and most women are not capable of it today. I think most women today view men as an accessory like earrings or shoes.

[Anonymous]

Done pretending you have a girlfriend because that didn't fool anyone?

[Asker]

Nah I actually do have a girlfriend

[Alex-Snow]

I'm a Gen Zer and I hope to find love. I'm just not ready for it at the moment

[Anonymous]

I never had any luck in love, so I'm not sure.

[NathanDavis]

I never had a reason not to

[Abbycado]

Yep.

[Zionne]

yes, i still do