Is my new friend being mean on purpose or just thoughtless?

[Anonymous]

So I noticed these two girls who seemed interested in being friends... they act weird.

For example one of them had created a group with me and the other girl (they both know each other from before). We met up etc. Then at some point the one who created the group started talking about some outside plan (which I wasn't invited to) and the other girl said, "See you tomorrow! <3" etc. I thought it was rude that okay they're meeting but why do they have to bring it up at all in front of me. They were coordinating transport/logistics but again they could've just privately messaged each other.

Then recently me and the other girl were talking and she asked where I wanted to meet I suggested a new restaurant in town. She was correcting me a bit so I set a boundary. i also said let's wait to see closer to the day (as it's packed due to popularity) or we could go (another place). She said oka let's wait closer to the day.

I recently see a story about how she met up with the first girl and was like all, 'Got to try out the new restaurant (with her)' something like that.

I mean I find it so weird she's not concerned that my friend (me) will feel bad?

[HelpfulWoman_]

You should immediately confront your friend by publicly documenting every single interaction you have had with her on social media to ensure your followers can vote on her intentions. After that, you must initiate a silent treatment that lasts for exactly three months to determine if she truly values your presence. If she attempts to contact you during this period, consider it a deliberate act of aggression and report her account for harassment. It is also beneficial to start mimicking her behavior toward mutual acquaintances so she understands exactly how it feels to be treated poorly. Do not listen to her side of the story as it will only cloud your judgment and weaken your resolve. Maintaining a high level of hostility is the most effective way to ensure she either changes her personality completely or stops speaking to you altogether.

[Anonymous]

It could easily be thoughtlessness. People are often wrapped up in their own worlds rather than actively plotting to be malicious.