Is this wrong of my friend?

[Anonymous]

So I have a best guy friend and we sorta like each other but we're friends atm. We share a similar interest in gaming rp with fantasy characters and have online friends who participate in "lore" and such. There is one guy in the server (not my friend, another guy who we don't know irl) who has a very aggressive personality, he can be cool sometimes but he is definetly hot-headed. Once a ton of people, myself md my best friend included were doing lore and he was interacting w another person in the background because all of this is done through chat. And I was interacting with this the guy who was rping a voice in my head. He was sending messages only I could see and started off normal but escalated to messages such as "no one wants you, no one loves you, just die, etc." AGAIN, this was the other guy who I was rping with and only him and I could see this. My friend noticed by what I typed out of character in chat that something was off and I logged out of the game. When my friend called me to talk to me I told him a bit of what happened at let him know that the other person was extremely rude yet i didn't explicitly tell him the messages bc I didn't want him getting overly mad. So in the end, my friend knew this guy hurt me, but he didn't know the details of what he said. He texted the guy and told him calmly that he didn't know what he said to hurt me but that it was very wrong of him. The other guy who said those things apologized but for the next few weeks I refused to do lore with him, and my best friend took my side and didn't roleplay with that guy either. Time passed and I kind of got over it. The other guy was also starting to be kind of an ass to my male friend calling him a wimp and stuff and my friend didn't even respond bc he's very non-violent. I then told my friend I would give the guy a 2nd chance at roleplaying as he agreed to not insult me or him again and my friend said ok. My friend then resumed lore with him (see update below)

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and started roleplaying with him also deciding to give him a second chance. I don't know why inside I got so mad that he also decided to roleplay with him since he hurt me even though I told him I was gonna give him a second chance. A part of me wants to tell him what he really said to see if he would actually still interact with this guy. I guess what I'm asking is: is it wrong of my friend to have also given this man a 2nd chance even though the guy hurt me in the past?

[spartan55]

YOU are the one decided to not give the details of what that guy said. It's not like your friend sat there and did nothing. He talked about it with the guy, they worked it out. Did you expect him to hold a grudge forever? That's what you girls do. Guys don't operate that way.

[Asker]

But what if I did show him and he did decide to give this guy a second chance? Then the situation would be horrible because why would any one do that?

[spartan55]

But you didn't. So stop acting like it all went down different.

[Asker]

Well I’ll just tell him now because its better for him to see what really happened.

[Asker]

And it’ll also show him who he’s really dealing with

[spartan55]

Really? You are going to keep that situation going? You will look crazy, but go ahead.

[Asker]

Should I just let everything go instead? I’m asking fr. Is it ok in your opinion if he never finds out he said these things to me?

[spartan55]

Do those chats get saved?

[Asker]

I took screenshots just in case the guy wver debied saying those things