Is it wrong of my friend to hold my girl (18, F) (16, M)?

[Anonymous]

She is a senior in high school and him a junior.. she did fell down during her cheer practice since she is a flyer and he carried her to the nurse’s office and then carried her back to the bleachers. He texted me to come and she was sobbing on his chest and he was comforting her. He handed her over to me when I came and we sat down for a bit. I was so happy that my girlfriend was safe with my friend but I have no idea if it was fine for him to hold her on his lap and comfort her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man that's a tricky one. On one hand your friend was just trying to comfort your girl when she was hurt/crying, which is good of him to care about her wellbeing. And it was nice he handed her off to you right away too.

At the same time though, they're different ages and not dating, so it could look kinda suspect if anyone saw him holding her like that, ya feel? Might give people the wrong idea about what's going on between them.

I'd say since nothing seemed inappropriate and he passed her to you, it's probably fine this time. But you might wanna tell your buddy to be careful about being physical with your girl in public from now on, just to avoid any rumors or whatever.

Also let your girl know how much you care about her just so she knows where you stand. Communication is key, feel me? As long as you all trust each other it should be cool. But I'd keep an eye out just in case - last thing you want is drama messing things up!

[adam6402]

That's a good friend bro. I'd question why your girl is all over another guy like that tho. I know she was upset but there are lines you don't cross and getting physical with your boyfriend's friend like that is crossing it for me.

[Blessedme]

Your friend called you but your girlfriend is one that was clinging on his chest. It's wrong for your girlfriend to be clingy physically to your friend. You got a great friend.

[KrakenAttackin]

She's probably hot so of course he wants to bang her.

[soe11]

I think absolutely fine.