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30F either DA or FA, want to say I’m some kind of avoidant. Based on life experiences, are these pretty tell tale signs I’m probably…well not attractive? I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships.

Last thing I’ll add was being bullied pretty badly as a kid, again I was chubby so I know this played a part. Worse in middle school, I didn’t have to be homeschooled but it still sucked really freaking bad. And in HS but not as extreme as middle school, HS was more mean girls if anything. As an adult at old jobs, I did have confrontation/clashing w/personalities too. And let’s not forget shit bosses. Since I’ve worked remotely for the past few years, I haven’t had drama with coworkers or mgmt. Let’s hope it stays that way, I’ve had to deal with toxic family members too but that’s a thing of the past.

I’M SO CONVINCED THESE THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE

Personally I don't have a bad opinion on plastic surgery, as a lot of people have. I just think that if a person doesn't feel good or secure of parts of her/his body, s/he should undergo surgery, if that help s/he feeling better.

Excessive plastic surgery is something I am against, because it results unrealistic and also because it can be dangerous for people who undergo it several times.

At the same time it can be dangerous given the fact that some people to pay less go to "surgeon" who are cheap and in those cases surgery could be letal, because the surgeon is not a real one or it is a bad one, so be careful to where you go.

However, I am pro surgery if it can help people in changing their image, of course if they want to undergo it, because sometimes plastic surgery can give a big boost to people's confidence, and at the same time I find it good because there are some people who unfortunately had accidents or people who were born with some peculiar features that today are seen as ugly or unaesthetic and surgery can help them. In m y opinion what is important is to not exaggerate.

I have never thought to undergo surgery, I think I should accept me for how I look, and if I want to improve there are other ways to do it. The only thing I would try is lip filler, because it is not a surgery, it is not invasive and most of all the result is not permanent, so if I don't like the result I could dissolve the filler or wait for it to dissolve alone.

What is your opinion on this matter? Would you undergo surgery? Did you undergo surgery in the past? Do you like extreme plastic surgery or is it something you dislike?

I will share with you some pic and in a poll, you can vote if you find that well made or not and you can reply by stating your opinion.

Personally I find extreme surgery scary more than well made or badly done ( image 1 and 2), but cases like pic 3 are very natural and feel good in my opinion.