Would most men want casual sex with a 26-year-old virgin?

[Hideous]

I am 23F and still a virgin. I used to be very obese but at the age of 20 l managed to change my diet and incorporate regular exercise into my everyday life and that way I lost almost 300 lbs. I am in the healthy weight range now for my height (though some people might say I have taken the weight loss thing to extremes and now I am slightly underweight.)

I have always been pathologically hung-up about my appearance but ever since I lost the weight, my insecurity about my looks has gotten worse, which is paradoxical and counterintuitive but that's the way the cookie crumbles, I suppose.

I am going to undergo eight major plastic surgeries to improve my appearance because despite the significant weight loss, I still see myself as hideous so much so that I am reclusive to the extent that I only go to work and while walking to work I stare downward and avoid eye contact at all cost. I also go jogging at night and that's pretty much my entire interaction with the outside world.

My parents are helping me save for the plastic surgeries by allowing me to set my entire monthly salary aside every month and based on the rate at which I am saving, I will be able to have all of the eight major plastic surgeries over the course of the next 35 months, so I'll be 26 once I have concluded my surgical journey.

And this brings me to my question: Would men have casual sex with a woman who is 26 and a virgin? I am going to be honest with you all. I never want to be in a relationship and I never want to get married because all I see is how people cheat on one another even though they are purportedly in committed relationships and marriages.

I don't want to invest energy in a relationship or marriage that can fall apart. (As a side note, I could be loyal but I don't think in today's world there are many loyal men (and women))

So I am only interested in casual sex but my virginity makes me insecure.

[Berethor]

The plastic surgeries are a turn-off, because it false advertisement, because you children will not inherit your new looks, they will inherit your old looks, not including the weight change of course, expect for the fact that you might have genes that make your will make children more likely to get obese, but it can be worked on, that said you just want casual sex, so I guess you don't want children, so your genes are not a concern.

Virginity is actually a turn-on, you give the honor to a man to be your first, it's great, who want a woman who has been with a lot of men? a virgin is clean, a virgin is better. Usually I think that casual sex is pretty pointless but with a virgin it has a point, because being a woman's first is great, also if you offer friends with benefits it better than a one-night stand.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Hideous]

You really didn't read the entire text apparently. I don't want a relationship or marriage, which means I will never have kids to pass my faulty genes onto.

[Berethor]

You can have kids without a relationship or marriage, I said that I guess you don't want kids, so read everything you said. Do you want one-night stand or friends with benefits?

[egarcia1360]

Short answer: Yes. (Terms and conditions apply)

Long answer: Broadly speaking, virginity works pretty much oppositely for men and women. With it being the norm for men to pursue women, a virgin man begs the question, "why has everyone rejected your advances? 🤢"—a virgin woman, "how have you resisted everyone's advances? 😍" So, trust me, you won't have trouble finding a hookup. If I were you, though, what I'd worry about more is the inverse of your question—that is, going through a hoe phase at 26, then changing your mind about relationships at 30 only for the roles to reverse, you fighting for your life to find a decent guy. Think long and hard about the path you want to take before you do something you can't take back.

[Hideous]

Why am I not allowed to enjoy my life and you are allowed to do so? Had you read the entire text, you would know, I don't want a relationship and marriage.

[egarcia1360]

I mean, there's no law about it, it's just the reality of the situation. Nor did I choose that reality, I'm just describing it. If that's what you want, more power to you.

[WhitneySnow]

I think most guys would do that, but I’m hardly an expert in the area

[LiamS95]

My first thought is to forget the plastic surgeries as many of them are not as successful as desired. For instance Donatella Versace, who most definitely had the money for the best plastic surgeons and has had numerous surgeries to improve her appearance and the more to fix the failed surgeries. Take a look at her now. Is that how you want your appearance to be? Solid, good hearted guys don't just look on the outward appearance but also look on the inward person too. Having sex with a female virgin is a special experience and requires a guy that will be gentle and think more about her pleasure then his own. He has to be an unselfish lover. I sincerely hope you give this the thought and consideration it needs for your future happiness. I wish you all the best and good luck.

[bowenw]

Being a virgin is not a deterrent in anyway and some men would jump at the opportunity to be with a virgin.

[FunkyMonkee]

Probably.
Some don't because they think it's too much trouble to pop her cherry or too messy to deal with.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Everyone is different

[Anonymous]

Only if she is my type of girl.