Search Results: my ex still contacts me

27 d

Does my ex truly love me or is he just afraid to lose me now?

We broke up and yet he used to message me now and then and kept in contact. He came to meet me oncei asked him if he wants to say anything but he didn't say anything. After that i decided to get settled with another guys...

Engie

Xper 3 Age: 47

27 d

My ex ghosted me over an old Instagram follow request—was she justified?

When my ex-girlfriend and I first met, she asked for my Instagram. I told her, "I don't use it," because I genuinely hadn't logged into the app for a very long time. However, my account was still active, and weeks before...

Iamcoming

Explorer Age: 25

1 mo

Why would my ex unblock me on Instagram after 2.5 years of no contact?

I’m confused about an ex situation and trying to understand the psychology behind it from a guy’s perspective. My ex and I have had roughly 2.5 years of no contact. He currently has a girlfriend that he lives with, and we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

1 mo

Why do abusive people expect automatic forgiveness and contact?

Thanks to gag for helping me with all this drama! So my niece texted me last night. She feels that my brother ex wife is using her. She feels torn between two adults because someone doesn’t wanna let go. She feels used by...

Paradiseequeen

Explorer Age: 35

1 mo

Was I the bad guy in this situation?

So my ex and I broke up over a month ago only reason I’m still in contact with him is because we are currently working on getting his truck only in his name ( he’s the co signer) so I text him today asking if he can bring...

Yuukikamlot

Xper 5 Age: 27

2 mo

Why is my ex trying to come back after seeing me give another girl a gift?

Gave a friend that a girl a gift. Then my ex started to look at me from a distance and tried to talk to me.( in no contact) why would she do this just because she is jealous I’m not paying attention to her? Or does she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

2 mo

Was I wrong to tell my ex’s parents he relapsed on meth around our child?

My son’s father (30) got out of prison 2 years ago.. his parents and I are very close for the sake of our son and they’ve helped me out a lot while he was in prison. He lives with his parents and works in construction...

prettygrlroxi

Xper 2 Age: 30

2 mo

How can I stand up for myself at an autistic social group with my ex there?

I’m attending an Autistic social group in a few nights’ time. There will be lots of people who matter to me attending. One who is a man who tried to use me for attention and freebies, with whom I cut contact last month,...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

Situationship stares at me sometimes?

So my ex situationship are in no contact but sometimes she still looks at me then when I look over she looks straight ahead. why does she keep looking at me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he still message me if he’s not interested?

An old coworker who at the time our old coworkers thought we were going to get together. But then I got new job and sometimes we reconnected. One time after 2 weeks I left, he saw me at the mall and we chatted there for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men say condescending and contradicting things?

Date1: We shared stories and values. He was divorced with a son and intended to remarry. He boasted about his spending. We texted frequently, with him sharing our days details. Date2: he began boasting about other...

Lilas

Xper 5 Age: 28

Why do I repeatedly experience betrayal from other women in friendships/& in family specifically involving them crossing boundaries with my partners?

Why do I keep experiencing betrayal from other women in friendships? Every time I’ve had female friendships, I’ve noticed a pattern where some of them crossed boundaries with my partners making a move such as flirting,...

Imsodun19

Xper 3 Age: 22

It feels like he is distancing but I dont know?

Me (21f) and this guy (21m) met on a dating app in Oct. I didn't find him my type so i ghosted him. Turned out he was from my uni and we met at a Halloween party his frat was holding. I still avoided him after even on...

Teaconfused_2023

Xper 2 Age: 22

Girl's Behavior

How common, innocent is it that girls take the initiative?

I hope everyone who celebrates Christmas, the holiday, enjoy themselves 😀 I am wondering how common is it that girls reaches out to guys the way my partner describe has happened to him: according to him a girl, not doing...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Would you talk to the best man from your wedding?

Years ago in what feels like a galaxy far, far away, there was a guy... a great fellow, my guy's bff. We'd never met, though we'd apparently traveled in the same circles our entire childhood. Suddenly I'm engaged and my...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

What is something you did to yourself that still hurts?

I found a song that really resonated with me, so I wrote my own lyrics about my breakup using the songs words/melody. Some parts said "reading about it turning the pages and pages allowing myself to fade in the story...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Boyfriend still hurt for a previous relationship?

Some background : we are in our 50s, my current 3 months boyfriend had a relationship live in girlfriend for 7 years that ended almost a year ago. We had a weekend getaway this last weekend. I checked his phone.. I should...

geeklatina

Xper 5 Age: 50

Boyfriend's ex messaged his mom after a year of breaking up, why?

I started dating my boyfriend a year ago, and then 3 months ago, his ex messaged his mom out of nowhere after nearly a year and a half of breaking up. She was blocked but still managed to contact her. I wonder why?

Anonymous

(30-35)