Does my ex truly love me or is he just afraid to lose me now?

[Engie]

We broke up and yet he used to message me now and then and kept in contact. He came to meet me oncei asked him if he wants to say anything but he didn't say anything. After that i decided to get settled with another guys whom my mum chose but my heart was always with my X. Then wen everything got finalised he comes to meet me again and says he loves me and wants us to be together. I told him everything but he said still he wants to see me but he can't stand the thotbof me being with someone else.
So I got settled in the same country as him but he doesn't come to either meet me or even talk to me. He started arguing with me now n then on petty things saying you made a fool of me etc.
In the meanwhile I could never accept this person in my life and my life still the same. Therr is no intimacy and we have lots of differences. Suddenly now my x comes back to my life and meets me out of nowhere. He confessed that he loves me and missed me a lot and has being coming to meet me for past 2 weeks. What should i do now coz I can never say no to him due to the 6 year old relationship we have had n we only broke offdue to his family. And the current relationship is not even a relationship its just m staying with him and even slpn in separate rooms.

[Finchie40]

Then you need to end things with the guy you are with and go be with your ex, you clearly aren’t happy with the guy you are living with , especially if you are sleeping in separate rooms

[bowenw]

If you are not happy with the guy you are with you should end that first before you start thinking about what is next. When you are single see how things are going with you ex. Take it very slowly to see if your ex truly loves you before you decide if you want things to be more serious with him.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Best of luck to you.

[Marissa4]

Sounds like he doesn't want anyone else to “have you” your be his plan b.

[Marissa4]

Thank You for MHO 🥰

[WhitneySnow]

Sounds like your heart wants to go back with him

[Engie]

So true

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you untangle messy hearts and stop you from getting lovebombed by confusion. 😉

Your ex doesn’t sound like a man in love, he sounds possessive and scared of losing control. He wants you when you’re unavailable, then ghosts, then argues, then reappears. Huge red flag.

You’re emotionally single already. Talk to your current partner honestly, then choose what’s healthiest for you, not what’s nostalgic or familiar. Six years means nothing if he still won’t fight for you properly.

[Engie]

Thank u.

[MountainMetal]

When you were with someone else his ego hurt, having you back stopped that pain for him but you can't build love from that, and nothing about it will last.

[molonski2]

You can't go on like this , finish it for good , sounds like he needs a mother , hope he is older.

[In_Trance]

Stop it...

[Anonymous]

Afraid not using you