First he's Japanese so this is why I tried to understand what he said, when we were together he couldn't give his time and I always felt lonely, I'm worried too much about him bcs we don't talk to each other often, he could gone without talking for 5 days and its normal for them but when we met he gave me all his to me.. he will move to my country this year and we will meet, we both agree to meet ane see if our feelings still there or not, so what do you think he tried to tell me? Thank you
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Why did my ex tell me he still loves me but is scared of hurting me?
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I think, because I'm having trouble understanding you, that he's worried that you and he won't work out, which in turn will cause you a lot of upset!
So he thinks it won't work out then? I see
I think he thinks it MIGHT not work out, yes.. I'm certainly not going to say he knows it won't, because I have so little information by which to gauge!
Ah I see.. but then we both agree to meet this year in September, he will move to my country for 2 years, he said "let's meet up again and see if our feelings still there or not", he said "I still love you, i still like you but im scared of hurting you again" I even forgot why we broke up, but he still remembers.. he still called me "baby", I should ask him directly but he hasn't read my messages for a week bcs maybe he's busy.. sorry
Can I be blunt and ask you a direct question?
Bearing in mind he says he doesn't want to hurt you, and knowing he is hurting you by not responding to your messages (Trust me, busy or not, if you want, you can make time to respond) Are you not just clinging on desperately for something which you already know isn't going to work out?
I want to add.. Talk can be very cheap.. saying I love you is nice to hear, but I tend to go by a person's actions over what they say. His actions are not saying to me he cares about you!
I don't want to go back to him, I told him.. before he's disappeared I told him "I don't think my person is you" and he replied "so it's not me then?" I told him I don't know but yes you are right, we will see when we meet and he never read or replied to my messages
Honestly? I think you would be wrong to even meet him! You deserve better!
Because he still has some type of feelings or attraction towards u but knows or feels like it won't work
Oh I see.. I think so yeah you right.. umm and how about he wants to meet me this year in September, he said "let's meet up againto know if our feelings still there or not"? I feel like he still wants to see if we can be together again or not or maybe it was his excuse haha since he's Japanese haha i actually should ask him but he hasn't read my messages since a week ago which is he's very busy, sorry for so many questions