He doesn't want you dating other guys... but he is dating another girl. He tells you he loves you, but apparently he's telling that to the other girl as well.
This guy is not boyfriend-quality material. My ex-gf did the same cute little game to me. That's why she's not my girlfriend anymore. DTMFA* and find someone else.
I know that's hard, especially after 10 years, but you can't make someone else act like an adult. If he decides to grow up and stop dicking you around, that would be one thing - but he has to decide that, and there's nothing you can do about it.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news!
* Dump That MotherFucker Already, from Savage Love
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It seems that this guys doesn't love you he just wants to use you.I know it is hard to move on when you were with someone for so long but the best thing for you to do right now is to look out for you. Right now you are the most important thing to yourself. I suggest that you tell him not to text or call you again, hang out with friends and family and when you feel ready to hit the dating scene go on. You make your own decisions because you are your own woman.Trust me it will get better when you move on and you will find the right person.If a guy tells you he loves you no woman,man,creature or thing should get in the way of you two being together.Stay strong
You clearly mind this game if you're asking for advice. From a sort of similar situation, I tell you this guy just wants to keep his options open so he can go back to you if something backfires. Back out now, you deserve better than someone who wants you just when they want to and not all the time. Go out with your friends, meet some other people, you are not with him anymore and don't owe him anything, and he has no right to ask you not to date someone else if he already does.
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