Was I wrong to tell my ex’s parents he relapsed on meth around our child?

[prettygrlroxi]

My son’s father (30) got out of prison 2 years ago.. his parents and I are very close for the sake of our son and they’ve helped me out a lot while he was in prison. He lives with his parents and works in construction Monday-Friday and we all were under the impression he was clean.. he expressed wanting his family back so we got back together and were doing well for 3 months until i caught him smoking meth in my laundry room while our 3 year old was home… immediately got upset at the fact he would relapses in my home especially around our child.. i made him leave my house.. he begged me not to tell him parents or anyone and how sorry he was etc.. i went 2 days with no contact and he kept blowing my phone up to talk.. he admitted he smokes it and snorts it and when i asked him how long he’s been doing it for he said since he got out of jail.. i got upset he had everyone fooled.. i told him i just couldn't be with him anymore and how i refused to go down with him if he got caught and i decided to let his parents know 4 weeks later. they kicked him out of their house and told him either rehab or he needs to leave and he called me and told me i betrayed him and ruined his life etc.. he said some really hurtful things and i haven't heard from him since.. his parents are still trying to get him to go to rehab but he refuses.. i texted him earlier today letting him know i love him and wants the best for him and all he said was thank you.. why do i feel awful for only trying to do the right thing and protect myself and my son and him considering he can get himself killed? he's staying in a hotel and while i love him i just can't go back

[Hiker_011]

You did what you had to do to protect your child. It's not your fault his parents kicked him out. That was their decision, just like it was his decision to smoke meth again. He says you ruined his life, but that's just an addict talking, who thinks he can continue to function on hard drugs. It's a sad situation, but the important thing is that your child is safe.

[Staximus]

I don’t know why you’re even wasting your time with some fucking low life jailbird tweaker. It’s time to pull your head out of your ass, you have a child

[NathanDavis]

nope