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Search Results: talking to a guy on im
Was trashing birthday gifts from my ex and ex friend reasonable?
Long story short: I ripped up a picture album of myself, threw away a ring, and stuck a book in a suitcase that I probably won't open again for a few months. Backstory: So one friendship ended last year, but she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does the way you see yourself physically indicate your options in dating?
I get compliments from multiple strangers most of the time. I spent the last almost 4 hours watching edits of myself on repeat in different outfits just walking or looking at the camera. From what I've seen, guys' lust...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you also value genuine human relationships?
I really hate that because Im not a museum piece. I’m completely turned off by guys (and girls) who are obsessed with the "status" lifestyle - like the looksmaxxing crowd, the "bros," or the people constantly obsessed...
Anonymous
(30-35) How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I cope with lifelong loneliness and never having a relationship?
Im in my late 20s and long story short; never had a boyfriend or even dated. I never had friends. I never had a relationship with my family. Every social interaction goes horribly wrong whether i speak or not so i can't...
77five
Xper 5 Age: 27 When was the last time you talked to a guy who you thought was interested in you?
Last time for sure was in March, that day I didn't want to be bothered tho and I had to tell him several times, no and wait for him to move from the areas I was trying to go to. The other guy at the end of April, im...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he losing interest or just busy? How do I decode his texts and mixed signals?
So, I am not the best date, but I want to try to be. I met this new guy around December and instantly we hit it off. We would text almost every day, he would plan dates for us (even got upset that i had to pay for one...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does karma always seem to hit back when people mess with me?
I've always noticed karma always comes my way in life. Im a very out spoken person and if I don't like what someone is doing im quick to call them out on it. Because im a woman and its usually men im calling out on...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Is it really wrong to lead on multiple guys after a breakup for distraction?
Even before my recent boyfriend, i’ve always had this thing where i cannot be left alone without the presence of a male. I turn extremely sad and depressive if i’m alone and the only way to prevent it is by having a man...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do so many Americans here assume everyone else is American?
I know im gonna piss a lot of you off here and i know your not all like this but im finding it incredibly frustrating on this site how many Americans assume everyone else is American and lives life like an American and...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Coworker rumored to be dating a minor: how should I act at work?
I work at mcdonald's. My manager, and another crew member i get along with real well were talking about this new guy who started. Apparently he's 20 and dating a 14 year old. Thats all I heard from them. We all close...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Why would a guy call, sound interested, then go silent again?
So we've been talking texting for 3 months. Getting to know each other. he's talkinnabout a relationship if I want one. Im slow to get involved. We quit talkin for 10 days. I gave in and text him. I said good morning. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do women ask for space instead of talking before breaking up?
Been through this one before, nothing feels bad or wrong about the relationship itself, but outside problems like family or other problems start affecting her thought process and then she feels like taking a break.. still...
yeahimadude
Xper 3 Age: 27 Can anyone help me about getting back with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend broke up with me several days ago. Our mutual friend didn't liked the answer ,, No, Never.’’when she asked her about if she gave million dollars to us to make a big wedding if she would marry me, so she...
guywhofdup
Xper 1 Age: 20 Why does this taken guy with a long-term girlfriend keep pursuing me?
I met this guy who is in a relationship. (the time I met him i didn't know this) he's been pretty open about his situation which is pretty much he's been in a relationship with this girl for 10 years. he doesn't want kids...
fuzzybunny420
Xper 1 Age: 26 Is he playing mind games or actually pulling away after 3 months?
I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now. recently i started taking longer to reply sometimes because of work and school and also bc i think enough time has passed to not feel the need to talk 24/7 (he replies late...
pernille10
Xper 1 Age: 22 Is my sister’s older boyfriend still a pimp and should I be worried?
My sister is dating a guy way older than her, She told me that he use to pimp in the 70s. He moved to Atlanta in the early 2000s and he was a landlord and helped young woman to get a place to stay, he never mentioned men....
Anonymous
(30-35) Sharing a room?
DISCLAIMER: MOVING OUT isn't AN OPTION. I DONT HAVE A STEADY JOB AND AM IN CALIFORNIA (RIDICULOUS PRICES) I (27F) share a room with my sister (31F). I have never had my own room. Have never had privacy. I would shower...
daisySykoSykes
Xper 5 Age: 28 What to do if I really like him but he mogs me?
i've been talking with this guy for a short bit now, and the chemistry is, for a lack of better words, palpable. i like him, i like the way he talks and how his voice sounds. and he pisses me off but not in a bad way. i...
Anonymous
(18-24) 