Do you also value genuine human relationships?

[Anonymous]

I really hate that because Im not a museum piece. I’m completely turned off by guys (and girls) who are obsessed with the "status" lifestyle - like the looksmaxxing crowd, the "bros," or the people constantly obsessed with being "high value."

A person is supposed to look at you like a human being first and foremost. If someone only wants to be friends or date me when I'm "poppin" or successful, I will happily escort them out of my life personally.

Everyone talks about people being used for money, but I’m talking about being used for clout and social currency. Does anyone else feel like genuine human connection is dying because of this? How do you weed these people out?

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i meant to say "i really hate objectifying"

[Cutegirl06]

It's so phony how society teaches that people are somehow better than others just based on their status in life. I have friends that view me as equal based on the fact that we are human and not a status symbol of some sort. There was a girl in high school who believed she was better than other girls in school just because she was dating like the cutest boy in school. Sad thing was the boy thought he was lucky too have her because she was beautiful. She used him for what she could get out of him. People follow like sheep in society without thinking for themselves just too fit in. They are never happy.

[Anonymous]

Dying? It's pretty much dead. At least online. You might be able to still find a feel genuine people in person but not online.

To me it's pretty simple. Know your boundaries and don't compromise them for ANYONE. Will you miss a few good eggs? Possibly. But you'll avoid a 💩load of headaches. I've gotten pretty adept at finding out what women are hiding over the years. Problem is when you get to this age sometimes they may have a good heart but the trauma is simply too deep. Some people wear their toxicity like a security blanket. It's just who they are at some point.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/8DzMSFccXtc

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Well you're not man so you don't know what it's like to be completely invisible and have no worth in society because you've not achieved anything yet. Women never have to feel that way, only guilt that they don't have to feel that way cause they're women at best, but that's not gonna damage their chance of getting a partner. It might even improve it.

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely. My entire life revolves around it. However, some sad sacks will never be able to make it work for them. Miserable people like to dig their own graves with their insecure, horrible personalities.

There is a classic example of it on this very thread.

[queenofcardio]

I genuinely enjoy having deep connections with people. It's honestly amazing when you just instantly click with someone

[beenherebefore]

I value my romantic relationship a lot. But I'm quiet bad at keeping friendships I just can't help but feel annoyed after some time.

[DryGermanGuy]

Absolutely. I’m bored by meaningless chitchat and aggravated by show-offs.

[serious]

Yes, I do value genuine human relationships.